So I hooked up with this guy from my best friends wedding. It’s her husbands good friend. We texted a few times after but didn’t hear much from
Him for couple weeks. Then he texted me on Thanksgiving and told me he heard I might join them for dinner in a couple of nights. And I had to tell him I had no idea what he was talking about and then asked my best friend. Long story short we all wound up going out to dinner. After him and I stayed out and god drinks. I was a little buzzed when I got there bc I had been at a girls night and then I was good up until the last little bar we went and I browned out a little bit. I ended up sleeping over but I’m just embarrassed that he thinks I drink a lot bc I actually rarely drink. He just caught me on two occasions where I was. He left early next morning for golf and said I could stay sleeping in at his apartment so I did. He texted me later that there were towels in his room if I wanted to shower and I told him i already left. Hr told me it was a fun night and I said likewise. Wish I could recover bc I’m a little bit ashamed.
Him for couple weeks. Then he texted me on Thanksgiving and told me he heard I might join them for dinner in a couple of nights. And I had to tell him I had no idea what he was talking about and then asked my best friend. Long story short we all wound up going out to dinner. After him and I stayed out and god drinks. I was a little buzzed when I got there bc I had been at a girls night and then I was good up until the last little bar we went and I browned out a little bit. I ended up sleeping over but I’m just embarrassed that he thinks I drink a lot bc I actually rarely drink. He just caught me on two occasions where I was. He left early next morning for golf and said I could stay sleeping in at his apartment so I did. He texted me later that there were towels in his room if I wanted to shower and I told him i already left. Hr told me it was a fun night and I said likewise. Wish I could recover bc I’m a little bit ashamed.
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Aww man, don't feel too embarrassed. We've all been there before, doing a little too much celebrating and having things get fuzzy.
This guy seems pretty cool and understanding about it though. Leaving you to sleep in and offering towels shows he wasn't weirded out. Plus saying it was fun is a good sign!
Chances are he's not judging you at all. Dude was prolly just as into the night as you were. I wouldn't sweat it unless he gives you a hard time over text.
Just play it cool next time you chat. Maybe suggest a chill coffee date to show you're not always a wild party girl :) He'll appreciate you showing interest and you can move past this.
Don't dwell on it girl, shit happens when you're having fun! Seems like this guy likes you, so try enjoying where it goes from here instead of stressin over one night. It'll be a funny story you can laugh about together someday, trust!
So you had sex with your friends husbands best friend, and you didn't think it wouldn't turn out bad?
Relax you did nothing wrong
I just browned out a little this las time and didn’t want him thinking I’m some heavy drinker since he’s seen me on two occasions where I was drunk. I always get ashamed after drinking lol. Hanxiety
No darling you're just overthinking relax njoy your relationship