My boyfriend already has two kids with someone else and doesn't want anymore, but I do in the future since I have none. What do I do?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

This is definitely a tricky situation man. A few things to think about:

- You're still young, so don't feel rushed. Give it time and see how you both grow and feel in a few years.

- Talk to him openly about your dreams for the future. Compromise may be possible, like adopting or considering kids later.

- Really think if you'll be okay long term without kids of your own. Raising someone else's kids is a big commitment too.

- Make sure you're both on the same page about responsibilities if you do have kids together - it affects his current kids too.

- Counseling could help work through feelings on both sides. A professional can offer perspectives.

- Decide if not having biological kids is a dealbreaker for your relationship. But don't issue an ultimatum either.

Ultimately you need to both be very sure about any decision. It sucks to be in different places on this. Just communicate a lot and see how you feel over time before making any final calls. Hope you guys can work it out!

[Berethor]

Why not find a guy that don't have kids? why you date a single dad?

[IslaTheWitch]

In general, you can give up on your dream of having your own kids, try to convince him, or change your boyfriend.

But I would say he is not treating you seriously. I get it. He has kids, and he knows what responsibilities are related, and he doesn't want any more of that. That is clear and understandable. But then he should create a relationship with a woman who has her own kids or doesn't want any.

So... I would tell him how I feel about it and that I want to have children. And based on his words, I would make a decision.

[HateyouxD]

You have to break up with him and find someone more compatible with your wants and needs

[boggboss]

U find a partner that is open to have kids what do u mean what do u do lol

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED...DUPLICATE.

[Andres77]

don't marry him. that's a deal breaker for me.

[AmeerX]

Tell him you want kids. He should understand your wants

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You aren't compatible. If he remains firm in his decision then leave sooner rather than later.

[Anonymous]

You can have from different guy lol

[Anonymous]

break up

[jahaims]

Move on

[riverrat3]

Find a different guy