Guys, would you go months without asking a girl out because you weren’t sure if she liked you? What if you guys flirt, why wouldn’t you ask her out?

[Anonymous]

[sawno]

Not anymore since I learned its actually really benefitial to be a clear communicator so she knows where you are at. But my past self would definitely have fallen in this category. It was the fear of missing out by doing it to soon. Rejection now, possibility later mindset. In reality its reverse where its possibility now, rejection later and it took me some time to figure that one out.

[Saiesh30]

Because guys like to flirt more than actually taking her out or actually committing.

[Asker]

Why?

[Saiesh30]

The tendency or the trend rather these days is to have fun and not settle in a relationship.

[ThrillSeeker01]

I couldn't go that long without asking her out. But some guys are afraid of being turned down.

[Anonymous]

No, because that's a sure way to make her think you aren't into her.

[spartan55]

Because she didn't show interest.