Guys, what would your reaction be if a girl that you have seen around but haven't spoken to ever asks you out?

[Anonymous]

[Кураж]

I'd reject her, I don't go out with people I know nothing about.
If she looks decently attractive, I may ask her what compelled her to ask me out in the first place, and if she doesn't sound psycho or desperate, I may give her my social media so we can talk a bit more.

But generally speaking, the odds of a positive reaction from me are very slim.
I usually don't humor superficial interactions, it's a waste of time.

[HighlyVolatile]

I'd generally turn her down including when I was single (I did every time it happened to me back then). Yet I'm down to hang out and get to know each other first as friends.

[Asker]

if she asks you out as in to hangout then?

[HighlyVolatile]

One thing I'm much more okay with and even got my second girlfriend this way in the US is if she talks to me first -- and we're clicking and having a great conversation -- if she writes down her phone number and passes it to me. Then I might call her and arrange a place to hang out.

[HighlyVolatile]

I just want at least some sort of conversation or something first where we're clicking so it's just so out of the blue.

[HighlyVolatile]

* [...] so it's [not] so out of the blue.

[libsaretards]

I would give her a chance. Most women struggle with being the first to make an approach so if a woman approaches me and as long as she does not have a trashy reputation she will get a chance with me.

[Asker]

But it won't be creepy right

[libsaretards]

Not at all. As long as she does not sound creepy or desperate.

[Tyrael]

I'd be flattered but unsure if I'd say yes. I'd likely suggest we exchange info and get to know each other a bit.

[Stevefiveo]

I would be pleasantly surprised.

[Asker]

But would say yes or no

[Stevefiveo]

Is she was pretty, then definitely yes.

[CloudMassacre]

Fumbly bumbly nervousness 🤣

[Asker]

awww

[CloudMassacre]

I would probably explain that I haven’t been with anyone and then see how they react and maybe arrange a lunch thing or something

[WhyMe247]

I’d be flattered.

[JuanVeIasco]

I would reject it.

[Asker]

why?