How long sould I wait before moving on?

[Anonymous]

Been talking to this girl for like 5 months she has some things going on she hasent messaged me in 5 days sould i move on

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah man that's a tough one. 5 days without hearing from her when you've been talking for 5 months is kinda weird. But at the same time, if she's going through some stuff then you don't wanna add more stress by bugging her or anything. I'd say give it like another week, then maybe send her a casual text or DM just to check in and see how she's doing without putting any pressure on her. But start talking to other girls too, you know? Don't just sit around waiting. If she hits you back cool, but if another week goes by with no reply then I think it's safe to start moving on bro. She might just need space right now with whatever's up. But you can't wait around forever. A week or two max I'd say is fair to see if she comes around, then open yourself up to other options. Sucks tho man, I know that feeling of not hearing back sucks. But you gotta take care of yourself too.

[bededazzle]

you could check in with her and see how she is. maybe you could understand better where she’s at as far as needing space? in a way, it may be better to start moving on now, and then if things work out it would be a nice surprise.

[HollyK21]

Have you messaged her? Why aren’t you in a relationship after 5 months?

[Asker]

She had a lot of trouma and, lots of things came between us

[HollyK21]

Have you tried messaging her?

[Asker]

I just did but haven't rechieved an answer

[HollyK21]

She might be upset you waited 5 days

[Asker]

She is littary going trew a lot im sure I'm the last thing on her mind right now

[HollyK21]

So why message her if she doesn’t have time for you?

[Asker]

Your right but I do miss the happiness she gave me

[HollyK21]

I’m sure you can find it with someone else🙏

[ThrillSeeker01]

Move on.