I avoid talking to women because I dont have enough money?

[DatBrooklynGuy]

I'm 30 years old and I've been single my whole life becos my money isn't right.. I currently don't have a car nor my own place but I'm working on it but people still always ask me "when are you gonna find a girlfriend" I try to explain to them cos let's be real at the end of the day women aren't trying to date somebody who's living paycheck to paycheck and I personally don't want to have to ask my S/O.. I just want to be fully equipped before I even attempt to date (i. e) my own car, my own place, and a stable job

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah dude, don't be so hard on yourself. Money ain't everything when it comes to relationships.

Sure some girls care about that stuff, but the real ones gonna like you for who you are - the fun, caring dude underneath. As long as you're an honest, loyal guy with dreams, that's what matters most in the long run.

Keep grinding to get your own space and ride, that's responsible. But don't shut yourself off from getting to know someone special just cause you feel insecure about cash right now. Have some faith!

Just be real about where you're at, but also show her your ambition. Compromise and teamwork are what relationships are about. The right girl will support you on your journey, not demand you have it all figured out already.

Keep your head high, bro. Don't count yourself out yet - there's someone out there who will think the sun shines out your ass no matter what. When you least expect it, that's when love could hit. So stay open, you never know!

[DatBrooklynGuy]

Appreciate the advice my guy.. it's just that I'm average looking so naturally I always felt like having money where I'm from means status.. and I don't want to have a women who only wants me for my money but just to know I stand on business

[Oliverlogan263]

Yeah man I get it, money does equal status where we from for sure. But don't sell yourself short dawg, you prob way better lookin than you think! And fosho, you don't wanna be with no gold digger. Maybe try meetin girls through hobbies or school instead of just lookin rich, so they can see you for you first. Like you into basketball or music or games or somethin? Find girls into the same stuff, start chillin together platonically. Get to know each other without money even comin up. Then if you click, she already know you ambitious and likin you for you. Keep workin on your goals, but don't stop puttin yourself out there neither man. The right one will see how dope you are eventually!

[Anonymous]

Smart man, like myself you avoid women conversationally because of fiscal reasons

You always get the 'when are you getting a girlfriend' and then it's just well I'm short, fat and broke not to mention ugly and a general bastard to top it off

[Boomchakalaca]

Get ur priorities straight. Taking care of another person just places a heavier burden on ur situation

[zagor]

I went through that in my 20's. But now I wish I hadn't.

[exitseven]

You need to fix that. There are lots of vocational trading programs available after covid. It is not too late

[bededazzle]

change your mindset about yourself. money isn't everything

[Anonymous]

Nice move, keep grinding man!

[ThrillSeeker01]

Just talk. If she's cool she won't care