Guys, how do you normally start a conversation with a girl (like you have her contact and you chatted before)?

[Anonymous]

I received too many "Have you eaten?"

[ThrillSeeker01]

I ask her how's it going, what she's done that she felt was fun or cool

[ThrillSeeker01]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Tim2nice]

Hi, fancy going for a drink or a meal somewhere?

[SolsticeSnow]

Oh gosh... Don't ask them if they've eaten unless you're going to follow it up with 'let's get lunch together'.

It's the beginning of a slow death of a relationship/attraction once you start the 'what are you having for dinner?' conversations.

Unless... they reply with '... you 😉' I suppose haha.

[Asker]

Haha I just got a lot of message like “are you up?” in the morning, “have you eat?” in the afternoon and evening, and repeat for 2-3 days without me reply.

[overthinkergirl]

have u eaten? what kind of question is this😂 in case it’s not a joke that’s weird in my opinion to start convo like this

[Asker]

Haha I do received a lot though, and sometimes repeat or texting “?” if they did not receive my reply.

[Tharithi]

How close are u

[Asker]

Like just a brief talk for like 10 minutes before they text me the same “have you waken up?”, “have you eaten?”, “have you gone to bed?” for like 3 days

[Tharithi]

Uhm lol u seem very close. So why are u hesitating

[Asker]

No, I mean they’re nearly strangers to me, like just meet once, talk about something work-related or situation that requires a 10 minutes talking and then they text me that way

[Tharithi]

That means they are weird

[DryGermanGuy]

„Enhance your calm, Lenina Huxley.“

[Kyr0s]

Hey. What's up