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My husband called me an ugly duck and I wanted to see if I can get someones opinion on the matter

Oliverlogan263 · Accepted Answer

Luv, that's really crappy of your husband to say that to you. No one deserves to be talked to like that, especially not by their partner who's supposed to support you. I know it's got to hurt your feelings hearing something mean like that.

You're definitely not an ugly duck, don't let him get in your head with that nonsense. All people are beautiful in their own way and what really matters is what's on the inside - how you treat others and the kind of person you are. I'm sure you've got lots of great qualities that make you an amazing wife.

It sounds like maybe your husband was just in a bad mood or having a bad day when he said that. People say dumb things sometimes without thinking when they're upset. But that's no excuse for putting you down. You don't deserve that.

I'd talk to him when you both have cooler heads and let him know how much it hurt your feelings. A good husband should want to make his wife feel loved and special every day. Maybe there's something else bugging him under the surface that led to that comment. Relationship stuff is complex.

Try not to take it to heart though - I'm certain you're gorgeous just the way you are. And any man would be lucky to have someone as caring as you by their side. This too shall pass. Stay strong and remember your self-worth doesn't depend on what anyone else says. You've got so much inner beauty to offer the world.

If you ever need someone to vent to or want a shoulder, I'm always here to listen. Don't be too hard on yourself - we all have days where we're not feeling our best. But you'll get through this. You're not alone. Try to keep your head high and stay positive - better days are coming, I just know it!

Static_In_The_Attic · Accepted Answer

An ugly duck he may have called you but an ugly duck I’m sure you are not. Sometimes when people talk they don’t really think before they open their mouth & in this case I think that is what happened. I don’t know what led up to him calling you an ugly duck but hopefully after I hope you made him sleep on the couch until he apologizes.

Apple1996 · Accepted Answer

You should think about getting a divorce. There's no reason to stay with a man that talks like this. It's verbal abuse

rosemilk · Accepted Answer

why would you allow your husband to call you that?

syncheart · Answer

I could see a guy saying something like that to is wife as a joke. Or I could see him saying something like that in response to something negative your doing around him. Maybe how your dressing, or taking care of yourself physically. I'm just brain storming. Anyways, I'm pretty sure I wouldn't say that to my wife or girlfriend, even if was true.

Billlewis · Answer

Number one, a guy should never call his wife such vile names. Number two, has he been drinking today?

Cutegirl06 · Answer

That was mean of your husband to call you that. Very hurtful 💔

EmmaMary · Answer

@cristinaissweet  In the first place what exactly was the reason or cause for him to call you this?

aceleon · Answer

i'm normally insenstive but even i feel bad for you.

MasseurDeMojo · Answer

Note: He married you!! So obviously he saw something in you that attracted him. More than likely, he got the better end of the deal in getting you!!

lightbulb27 · Answer

that can mean different things. and why they said it and how is relevant. e. g. the ugly duck was the best one...

IslaTheWitch · Answer

Could you please give more context? It is hard to understand what really happened.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

Call him "limp sausage" i'm sure he will "realise his mistake" 😈🤷‍♂️

Joshydavid25 · Answer

Your husband is a jerk.. So it seems.. But we don't know anything about the context of him calling you that..

rrraksamam · Answer

I haven't seen you. But if you're an ugly duck, why'd he marry you in the first place? Is he an idiot?

OddBeMe · Answer

Husbands a dick. But I lack context.  True, the story is about a goose or whatever so that’s why “ugly duck” is a false narrative, but calling you that seems derogatory.

Tim2nice · Answer

Is there a chance he might’ve been joking with you? Some men have an unusual sense of humour

RealMarek · Answer

Sounds like a mean comment. Can you provide more context?

stratford · Answer

We would need to see what you look like to answer that...

ThrillSeeker01 · Answer

That's unacceptable. Like tell him it's not okay.

mohannad5 · Answer

This is how you described our structure in external appearance or behavior

BlissfullyCurSed · Answer

Call him ugly cuck

Cheerfull009 · Answer

It means he doesn't love you, so better quit him

Sonorous · Answer

I'm decent at analyzing faces.

DARKCLOUD1945X · Answer

TELL YOUR HUSBAND HE HAS A LITTLE DICK!

collie22 · Answer

I don't like him calling you names 😠

Nikki1989 · Answer

You deserve a better husband.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

And he said that why?

slatyb · Answer

My opinion is that you should leave this marriage.

Crankor · Answer

Call him an ugly dick?

Darkside2543 · Answer

Send a pic so we can see

gorydetails · Answer

Sure. Send a pic

Lonen · Answer

Probably a reference to the ugly duckling story

Anonymous · Answer

Was he joking or being serious?

TiaNour · Answer

Call him a ugly duck

HouseMoat · Answer

You're NOT UGLY!

Amur8711 · Answer

I will give an opinion

Socaljp · Answer

Yeah, where's the pic

crazyymann · Answer

change your lifestyle and get some exercise

QuietRunner · Answer

sure I help out

bowenw · Answer

Disrespectful

serenalovesramen · Answer

Fight back

riverrat3 · Answer

Sure if i can help

eagle1951 · Answer

hmmm

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