Can I have some opinions, please?

[SnoopBean9110]

The girl I’m most curious about is religious. So am I! (Debatable) I really want to go on a date with her, but she usually says something like, “I’m doing (blank) that day, and the next I’ll be doing (blank), sorry.”

We’ve known each other for about 7 years now (I’m 16), but puberty started a bit further back and I started to notice her more my freshman year. She’s a sweet girl and I nice to everyone because of her morals, but she’s a bit timid and shy at first when you speak to her.

I don’t know if she’s avoiding, her parents say ‘no’, or something. I’m also interested in her because of her accent. Her parents are Slovak and she was born in America, so she still has an accent from speaking to her parents in a native tongue making her just that much more amazing…

My intentions are light for her. I’m not considering a kiss on a first date or beyond that for a long while…

Opinion of the scenario?

[SteveSmith1985]

It does indeed sound like she's avoiding your advances.

I notice you said she "usually says"... which makes me think you've asked her out more than once, or even twice.

A girl who liked you back would say something like "sorry, I'm doing (blank), and tomorrow I"m busy with (blank)... how about next weekend"

She wouldn't lose the date with you simply because she was busy, she would try to work with you to figure out a time that worked for both of you. (every time)

Whether its her saying "no" or if she's doing so under pressure from her parents... she is saying "no."

She is trying to be nice about it, but she does want you to stop asking her out. This is a girl saying "no" to you asking if she wants to go out with you (be more than friends).

Sorry dude. You're going to have to just let this go. It's not right to continue to ask her anymore. Wish I had better news for you.

[sawno]

In situations like this i like to force a truth. So i'd be asking her what a good time would be for her. If she still tries to weasle out after that ill know she's not interested.