Need some opinions?

[Anonymous]

So basically me and this female were on a date and everything was going well.. until she seen something on my phone she didn’t like, so that got her into her emotions. She was crying and saying after she was “finally opening up too me, why would I do that too her” .. I explained to her it wasn’t me in those videos, gave her some space to cool off.. she called me the next day I talked to her about how it wasn’t me and we were all good.. 4 days pass and nothing I don’t get no phone calls or texts , until I call her.. her reason why was cause she was “busy”
But no girl is that busy.. so what I’m wondering is if I should just move on I really need some advice I love this female and I know she does to but I don’t know what I should do..

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay yo dawg that's kinda sus, like what even was on your phone she didn't like? Feel like there's details you ain't tellin but I digress.

Here's how I see it - if y'all connected well before that and she trippin this hard still, it could be she got trust/insecurity issues from past situations. And sometimes girls need time to process emotions, they be on different timing than us guys.

My advice would be hit her up one more time, be straight up like "Yo I feel us, what's good? I wanna make this right." See what she says, might give you more clues what's really buggin her.

If she still won't open up then I'd say you tried homie, ball's in her court now feel me? You said your piece, can't force it. But if she starts coming around again, take it slow and be extra reassuring till she levels up that trust again, aight?

Only you can decide how long to wait it out though. Keep it positive either way dawg!

[bibibibixxx]

well I don't know what kind of vid that was, but lets assume u r not lying about whatever that vid is and its really not u. 1st of all its nice that u tried explaining it to her but if that made her question u and lose some trust then u can't do much. let her be, u can text her from time to time to check up on her and ask her if she wants to talk about it blah blah but thats pretty much all u can do. u should try not being too pushy and let her have time for herself and to think about everything

[provokeesmokee]

Bruh, did you just use "female"?

You're doomed, man. You're doomed.
Return to 4chan. It's all over for you.

[BrightBubblyKat]

I don’t know what exactly happened here?