How would you feel and what would be your reaction? Need some opinions with this one?

[Anonymous]

How would you feel and what would you say or do? Your spouse of 22yrs., only Christmas gift to you was a I. O. U. note, written by hand on torn cardboard box " Good for one (1) date night out". Opinions please.

[Cinnimini123]

That it's an absolutely and unequivocally a no effort gift. I would probably not say anything but low-key be really hurt and offended that they put so little effort into the gift. But also simultaneously I would remember that and next time it's their birthday or valentines day do the exact same thing so they can see how it feels. And I know that may sound petty but honestly that's the best way to handle it in my opinion. Just so they can see like I said exactly how it feels

[Asker]

Yes I agree. I didn't say anything but it hurt. I think it's just another example of her showing how valued I am in her mind and the amount of effort she is willing to put in the relationship.
But what do I know I'm the crazy one for feeling hurt about things she is doing or not doing.
Thanks for your opinion! It can be tough to see the forest through the trees.

[KrakenAttackin]

My ex never did shit for me for bdays or Christmas.