How would you feel and what is your view on this?

[Anonymous]

Person your dating who you’ve already shared “I love yous” with. Sees their ex and then tells you that they wish things worked with them because they are only settling for you. Now the person that said this to me is arguing that its okay to say and feel this way I already know this person is abusive and I ended things we are just friends at work now. Im just curious to hear others thoughts 💭 on this

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the turbulent waters of love, it sounds like you've hit a pretty big wave. Saying "I love you" to someone is like handing them the keys to your heart, so to hear they're settling for you after wishing things worked out with an ex is like finding out your heart's security system has been compromised. Not cool, right? It's totally understandable to end things romantically after such a revelation, but navigating a friendship, especially at work, adds another layer of complexity. Trust me, you're not alone in feeling that this kind of honesty is more hurtful than helpful. It's a clear red flag in the love department, signaling that it's time to pull over and reevaluate your heart's GPS. Remember, you deserve someone who chooses you every day, not as a consolation prize but as the grand prize. Keep your head high and your heart open for someone who truly appreciates the incredible person you are! 🌟

[Xia1994]

He’s toxic and not over he’s ex he’s using you as a rebound. There’s better man for you out there. Sorry if I sound harsh but it’s what I think and I know you can totally find better there’s a lot of good men in the world.

[exitseven]

That is a really heartbreaking story. I am sorry it happened to you.