Boyfriend has a load of random women liking his posts on Facebook?

[Anonymous]

my boyfriend has a load of random women who he’s never met before as friends on Facebook. Most of the men he has on fb he knows. Whenever he posts, these women put a like on. It makes me uncomfortable. Am I wrong to want him to delete them?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay nah I don't blame you for feelin some type of way sis. Social media be wild like that. but A few thoughts:

- Girls be likin thirst traps online all the time without necessarily meanin somethin by it. social proof thing I guess.

- Same time it's understandable why the attention would bug you though - I'd feel weird about it too most likely.

- Instead of demandin he delete 'em right away, maybe just talk to him openly about how it makes you feel uneasy seein all these randos swoon. hear his side too.

- If he cares, maybe he chills a little on the selfies or sets his profile private so they can't see. compromise is key.

- But don't stress yourself sick over it neither, feel me? most likely ain't nothin to it. trust is important too.

- Show him you got nothin to worry about by not bein possessive or accusin - that'll just push him away. let him choose to ease your mind.

Keep comms honest and open. y'all got this! Communication is 🔑 in any relationship. 💯

[Danny_dan92]

Do you have men liking your posts too?




If so, you’re setting a double standard

[Nikki1989]

He is cheating, or at least thinking about it.

[ThrillSeeker01]

Just ask him if he knows them at all

[Iron_Man]

You better talk to him