Boyfriend liking girls posts?

[Anonymous]

So I know a lot of y’all don’t care, but I do find it disrespectful that my boyfriend likes other girls post. In the beginning he did like you know bikini pics & some what provocative pictures. I obviously brought it up to his attention & made it clear how it would make me feel. We had several conversations about it & he still does it not as much, he thinks he slick about it. But if y’all know how is girls are. WE KNOW lol

how can I be okay with that? Or why does he think it’s okay? Men’s perspective would be appreciated!

[Anonymous]

I don't see much of a difference between someone just looking at the pictures and mentally saying they like them and double clicking on a photo. The only difference is that you know that he liked a particular photo but he will like the photos of other girls regardless if he double clicks on them or not. So saying "don't like other girl's photos" is similar to "don't look other girls' photos" and I think that's very wrong. Just because we are in a committed relationship, doesn't mean we magically stop liking other people and finding them attractive. If a hot girl walks by me I will look, if I used social media and saw a hot girl on the internet I might like the picture. As long as I don't chase someone and ask for their number, I don't see why it's a problem.

Men are visual. Remind yourself that he's with YOU for a reason.

[Twalli]

He shouldn't do it because it makes you uncomfortable, but from a guys standpoint it's not that bad. We are very visual creatures. We like how girls look. That's why we ask them out. Just because we got a girlfriend doesn't mean all other girls are invisible anymore. I honestly don't think he is going to stop looking. At best you might get him to stop liking them, but he'll still look and like it mentally.

[WhitneySnow]

Liking bikini pics of other girls is disrespectful. Otoh liking a regular pic is not. Could be just a friend thing.

[Iron_Man]

You have to talk to him about it tell him you’re not happy about that

[Anonymous]

Why do some people stress over this?

[Anonymous]

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