Is being sexually involved with more than one guy a bad thing?

[Anonymous]

I've never had more than one person interested in me at a time. Neither wants a relationship which is great because I don't either. Guy 1 is great in person but distant and hard to read via text so I never can tell if he wants to keep seeing me until he asks again. He gives nothing away. Guy 2 (who I knew before guy 1 but we stopped talking for years but recently came back in the picture) is great in text, responsive and great in person but he lives far so it's unrealistic to see him regularly.

Is it wrong to see them both? Everyone says "you aren't in a relationship do what you want" but I don't know. I don't even know why I'm overthinking this honestly...

[XXTruthfulOgrexx]

As long as your honest with both of them and they have no issues then it isn't a bad thing.

If you have to hide or lie or have sneaky links then yes it can be considering cheating by one or the other and they have a decision if they wish to continue seeing you or not.

[RavVid]

If you are honest and let them both know that is fine. If you aren't being honest and open then it isn't.

I think there is a 'stigmata' with it because a guy you want to take you seriously in the future might not. You don't get a vote in this.

[Fireguy17]

No, not unless you are in a committed relationship with someone.
Guys do it quite often, so why not you?
They don't want a relationship and quite possibly are doinking someone else or more than 1.

[slatyb]

It's not a bad thing if you are behaving ethically: both are aware, and that you are taking precautions to prevent STD transmission.

[exitseven]

As long as you are not in an exclusive relationship with one or both of them and you just want to sleep around it is okay.

[Apple1996]

Nope nothing wrong with that

[Danny_dan92]

Do whatever makes the pussy happy I guess

[aceleon]

yes it is wrong, it is cheap behavior.

[spartan55]

Go with whoever has the bigger dick.

[Kelly6]

no, it's normal

[ThrillSeeker01]

If you're all into it, why not?

[Anonymous]

Nah, sharing is caring.

[riverrat3]

We all have needs, fill yours