How to handle never being anyone’s type…?

[HarryLarry25]

So I think I’m a relatively attractive guy, I get compliments on how well I dress, I have nice teeth, and I like to think I have a pretty outward personality and I’m also in relatively good shape (I’m a little short at 5’9.) However I still find it hard to find someone that’s interested in me for longer terms outside of meeting at the club and maybe one night stands from time to time. I wanna build something meaningful with someone but I don’t know where to start

[NathanDavis]

if you want to have something meaningful... you first have to be meaningful yourself...

all of what you mentioned was pretty much looks and that's all superficial... not something meaningful

[Anonymous]

You sound very insecure. The nonsense about your height told me all I need to know.

[HarryLarry25]

I’m not gonna say it’s an insecurity I don’t necessarily care about my height I’m just throwing out things that women might initially see when I’m seen ya know maybe it sounds like one but trust me that isn't the case

[HarryLarry25]

But who knows maybe it is. Maybe that’s why I can never get anything else out of women but sex I don't know