Could you date someone who didn't care about their looks/clothes at all?

[Anonymous]

I don't mean poor hygiene, but just, if it's a formal occasion, they don't bother dressing up, they don't care if their hair is messy, clothes are way too big/too small and they won't shop for anything new, they don't care if they are matching or not, etc?

[Minahh]

No. I like to look good. For special occasion especially. And if he doesn't it's just a no. Like I won't argue with like with a 3 year old that he has to put on a suit and make his hair and beard look nice.

[electromagnetic]

Probably not to be completely honest. Presentation can go a long way.

[molonski2]

Pretty simple for me , absolutely no way , shows a complete lack of respect for themselves and in turn you , for being with that person.

[Anonymous]

I know a few people like that and it kind of ticks me off

[godfatherfan]

I prefer it.

I don't want to date a slob. I can't handle that. But all those people that need designer or very expensive clothes. Always having to get "new styles" to keep up with the joneses. Pay $100 for a haircut that is exactly the same was a $14 haircut from Great Cut's? I won't waste my time with those people.

You want to dress up? go for it. Those "designer" clothes you pay $1200 for a shirt or blouse, which is really about $5 in material, are ridiculous. Anyone that feels they have to wear that kind of stuff, I just look down on you. I rather be in my cheap ole jeans and tshirt. No worries about spilling anything on me, and I am messy. I wear my leather new balance old man shoes that I am already pissed off I pay $60 for, when I used to only pay $29. You do not impress me, or most people. You just look foolish. Sure some of that stuff looks good. But anyone wearing those gucci, balanciaga, etc clothes,... people just look at you like you are the worlds biggest douche.

[sunflower00]

I don’t know to be honest. I’d like to say no but it is kind of important. It’s just a respect thing I guess, like respect the environment you’re in and a social awareness thing too.


I like getting dressed up and would feel a bit weird next to him.


However, my boyfriend doesn’t get overly dressed up often. If we go for a meal I like to get dressed up and he’ll usually wear jeans/trousers and a t shirt or something with trainers. That’s fine with me, as long as he’s clean and presentable without smelling/stains/etc.

[Tomisworthless]

This is me i stopped putting effort since everyone bullies me regardless how i dress. Always thought women weren't attracted to me because I'm unattractive however its because im gay and never knew but they could tell just by looking at me. Bullying has given me depression social anxiety rejection isolation no self esteem and low or no confidence. In my early 20s a girl asked me who taught you how to dress, i had style but being shy aninsecure i never talked to girls only as i got older and people always calling me gay slurs did i start to realize im gay and hated and worthless. Dropped out of college and settled for the bare minimum in life

[Raaj4you]

Ofc, if she is beautiful, smart, humble, nice person. I have seen some beautiful nerd girls/ women who don't care about their make-up and clothes. Women who are simple and naturally beautiful.

In India, we say If you are born as a handsome man, beautiful woman and wealthy. Then you don't have to show them off. Why do naturally beautiful hot women want to expose their body? I think all guys would be happy to date women with her beauty and characters. We men, don't want to see your naked body.

[Tim2nice]

I wouldn’t mind. I don’t care about how a woman dresses or what she does with her hair, nails, etc. In fact, I prefer them natural. If she’s naturally attractive and interesting and engaging on dates then we’re good

[Cutegirl06]

No messy guys that dress sloppy are not my type. My boyfriend has old clothes that he wears sometimes but he buys new clothes too. Sometimes old clothes are more comfy 😌

[Chandelier8]

That wouldn't bother me and might even endear me as I tend to like eccentric people that do things differently. Normal is boring. Normal is shit.

[Benjiman19]

Absolutely! I am the exact person you just described. I've worn an oversized sweatshirt and baggy sweatpants to a wedding. Did not care to dress up nicely cause who's going to remember someone who was invited anyway?

[wiltingrosepetal]

He wore a t-shirt, and shirts and thongs at our highschool graduation. Never dating a guy like that again 😃👍

[systemsareyo]

Nope. I shower daily, sometimes twice daily. I couldn't date someone the opposite. I also couldn't date someone who's even cleaner than me as I would find that a personal hell like a drill sergeant.

[LazerBean]

I could, but I wouldn't. Sounds like a pain and they would be a bad influence on their kids.

[ColHathi]

Well I might try to dress her up in something sexy or pretty, but other than that it sounds perfect.

[TacosRAwesome]

No. I want someone with enough class to respect the location and style of event they're attending.

[Starrrboy]

Naaah.. that's a big turn off especially from a guy's perspective..

[Paris13]

Kind of a Turn Off. xxoo

[rachel776b]

no i need someone well-put together

[Lliam]

No. I couldn't deal with that.

[sheikalana]

I don't think so.

[GuyKyle79AD]

I did. Me as well.

[12karen]

As long as he's okay with that, idc