Would you date someone you don't find physically attractive?

[Anonymous]

people say looks dont matter and all but that stuff is not true. looks does matter in a way.

Yes

No

[Anonymous]

I dated a girl for a year a while back. I loved everything about her but for some reason I couldn't put my finger on I just didn't want to have sex with her.

I. hated myself for it. I forced myself to do it with her but it got to the point I wasn't even having orgasms anymore (weird coming from a guy). I. loved her so much as a person I didn't want to hurt her self esteem so I never said anything.

Well anyway she eventually saw through it and dumped me. It was very painful because she was the first person I met that "understood" me. She refused to be friends or even any kind of contact afterwards. This haunted me for years because if it wasn't for that attraction problem I would have bought a ring.

So point being, do NOT date someone you are not attracted to. You are hurting them and your yourself if you do.

[bloodmountain1990]

Agreed with the last part. I would also advise the opposite occurs too. Never date someone who is hot but has a horrible personality and displays a lot of red flags. That can be very damaging to your self esteem as well.

[Opinion Owner]

@bloodmountain1990 yeah I've been in that scenario too. In fact I think that problem is much more common with dudes. We get stupid around hot women and many of them abuse it.

[bloodmountain1990]

Yep, it's called being blinded or looking through rose tinted glasses. It's like the red flags just look like flags when you look through rose tinted glasses. I've learned that the hard way.

I mean there's flaws/quirks but then there's red flags and you should always keep those in check.

[thatguyfromtoronto]

Look let's all stop beating around the bush, obviously looks matter for both girls and guys. It's the expectation or how high your standards are. If you're a dork and you are not good looking and chasing after girls who look like supermodels, uh yeah, you may want to lower your standards.

Now sure, there are guys out there who can back up their game with money, or being strong/protective or even really funny and those traits work. But for me, I would rather be single than to choose someone I am not physically attracted to because I don't want to be with someone I don't like because then the relationship is just a facade.

[MissMinaaaa]

Attraction is definitely important for sure, and considering this is real life and not some hollywood blockbuster-- it's probably unlikely that other people believe that they would in a realistic setting. HOWEVER, there have been cases where I see a guy and don't really find them attractive at all (not necessarily ugly, just not my type), become friends and get to know them, but somehow I slowly develop a crush for some reason. I still may find people more "handsome" but I did still develop attraction nevertheless. So I think you can grow attracted to somebody, but I don't think it'd ever work out if people get into a relationship with somebody and finding them not physically attractive at some point.

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[MissMinaaaa]

@RiYad Why for which part?

Well, I am a girl and yes I have felt physical attraction before I met them (Chris Hemsworth for example). I don't know what girls you talk to if they have never thought a random guy was hot. Physical attraction is not the same as sexual attraction. Some people have it tied together side-by-side but others who aren't willing to screw every cute guy they see, look at those two traits separately. Personality is key, and is needed for every relationship FIRST. But physical attraction must be had either had first or at least grown to be physically attractive. Are you gonna get into a serious relationship/marry someoneand one day look at them and say "She is such a sweet and loving girl, but to be honest she's not even that great looking/Ugly even."
If so, that is abnormal.

[RiYad]

Thinking someone hot and feel physical attraction is different think. Girls also think others girl is hot but do they feel physical attraction when they see hot girls?

If yes then ok.

But most girls say before knowing them person guys and girls are just another person to them. No attraction no tingle

[lumos]

No I wouldn't, because I can't have sex with someone I'm not attracted to. Nor would it be fair to him to be in a relationship where he isn't fully appreciated for everything he is (looks + personality). Attraction is a huge part of a relationship. It's what makes you want to put effort into it. If I'm only attracted to his personality, I'll only be capable of seeing him as a friend. The only kind of love I'll ever feel for him will be more family-like, and not a passionate romance type of love. My heart would easily end up falling for someone else. And like I said that wouldn't be fair.

[bloodmountain1990]

Yep plus as a man, if you have sex with a girl you're not attracted to, you might have a hard time getting "hard" which is awkward and they get insulted by it.

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[lumos]

@RiYad that's nonsense.

[bloodmountain1990]

@RiYad physical attraction is what draws you in, personality determines whether you or they will stay. End of story

[RiYad]

What nonsense?

I get this idea from Gag girls. Are they from different planet?

All of them say when they see guys and girls they can just recognize them as different gender. But don't feel anything until get to know them, until talk to them.

[lumos]

@RiYad you're talking about actual *feelings*, and not just feelings of attraction. It's true that girls (and guys too tbh) can't fall for someone just based on looks. But we do feel attracted to people because of looks, that's completely normal. However, to actually fall for someone you need to get to know them as a person too.
Don't confuse being attracted to someone with falling for someone. They're two completely different things. It's very easy to be attracted to someone as that's usually just based on looks, and girls can do that too regardless of any other feelings.

[RiYad]

I am talking about women in general.

Because girls on gag (from different planet) say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Yes I am talking about initial attraction not about actually fall for someone.

[lumos]

@RiYad I've literally never seen anyone on here claim that they can't be physically attracted to someone without knowing them first. I've only seen girls say that they can't fall for someone without knowing their personality first. Which like I said are two different things.

[RiYad]

Every time I see this on GAG that
Weather it's hot guy or average guy girls react same to both. It's just a neutral acknowledge or appreciation. If the guy propose them, if the guy show interest towards them, then after a good conversation, after knowing their personality - girls start to feel attraction.

Before this steps attraction can never happen. Because women's nature is to be desired, no feel desire.

So, visually they don't experience any attraction.

[RiYad]

Attraction- feel butterflies, tingle, throbbing and sensational feelings

[lumos]

@RiYad I disagree.

[RiYad]

Disagree about what?

[SnowyOwl]

Looks needn't be perfect, nor even the imaginary ideal. If someone has the right personality for us, then looks only need to be passable. Over time, a person develops more attraction towards their significant other if the personalities were compatible in the first place. Its much harder to dislike someone's personality at first and gradually start to like it. e. g. if you love being outdoors and your drop dead gorgeous boyfriend hates to see the light of day, then overtime you will find him less beautiful as he perpetually rejects going for a walk to the park (idk, just an idea)

[RiYad]

So, you can date anyone if they have personality? Looks and height doesn't matter?

[SnowyOwl]

@RiYad well, if you read what I wrote I said looks dont need to be perfect "perfect" but rather "passable". And I say "passable" in quotation marks because this really depends on the person. We all have our limits, but I'm saying that when you are choosing whether you like someone or not, you shouldn't just base it on "oh her eyes are not blue", "oh he needs to work out more", "oh, their teeth are not completely straight", "oh, they should have a nose surgery"... That is all superficial, it can be changed. But then, you shouldn't get with someone if inside your head you are putting conditions such as "I'll be with this person because I am sure they can change this, or I can convince them to do that". Like them for their personality, It took years to build and it is probably the most stable thing they have, so you can't let it pass second

[RiYad]

Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

That's why I ask this.

[OlderAndWiser]

People who say that "looks don't matter" are either telling a lie or speaking strictly for themselves. For most of us, physical attraction is an absolute ingredient for a good romantic relationship.

[AleDeEurope]

Damn, so many desperate people on GAG xD

Looks do matter, when people say they don't matter, they mean they don't matter as much as personality.
So no, I would not date a girl I don't find attractive.

[Asker]

i know right.. so many desperates lol.

[bloodmountain1990]

Both are important. If a girl is attractive but is boring or has a bland personality then talking to them would be awkward. If they're a cool person but aren't physically attractive, like at all, then kissing and sex would be awkward.

[EpicDweeb]

Yes, but I already learned something a while ago. The more you create an emotional attachment to a person, the more you find them beautiful and attractive. You don't have to find a person physically attractive to love then, and as you learn to love them more you can grow to find yourself physically attracted to them.

[blueguy932000]

I've met girls before who I didn't find physically attractive initially, but then later on after I got to know them for who they are, I see them differently. Basically, once I find a girl's personality attractive, I find her physically attractive as well.

[Fitness-Fanatic]

I believe looks matter to everyone. If appearance wasn't taken into consideration then people would just date everyone and anyone. We all have our own preferences

I'm initially attracted to a guys appearance, but his personality determines if I continue to date him or not

[RiYad]

Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

Girl's don't feel any attraction physically or sexually when they see hot guys. They have to talk with him or they have to have some chemistry with him because girls don't experience attraction visually.

[Anonymous]

Nope, been there done that. I've dated girls who weren't attractive in person when I met them. Or I lowered my standards and kept seeing women I had no physical attraction to because I wasn't having luck with others and let me tell you, it's a huge waste of time.

Sure they were nice people, but I'd get no excitement when seeing them and felt guilty because what if I had to tell them I don't find them attractive and the more you see them, the more attached they get.

Even though I've never had a serious relationship, I'd rather be single than be in a relationship just for the sake of it. So looks do matter just like personality.

[Grimfangs]

Yes. I have done so. Physical attraction is only useful in causing the initial form of attraction, and it quickly fades away. In the end of the day, the only thing that lasts is attraction to personality and what's inside.
For me, it's okay if they're not physically attractive as long as they're not physically repulsive either. Such things are emotional journeys, and if you are in it only for the physical appeal, then you seriously need to consider growing up.

[adores]

Yes and no; I've fallen for my ex-lover before I was physically interested in them. After we started to get together, then I started to get interested in them physically.

Surely it would be hard to have sex with them if you weren't attracted to them physically.

[Robsinsf53]

I was put in a position to where I don't want to lie but, I'm not going to go out with this woman either. So I did stay @ work that day until midnight and do you know, that the person who arranged this without my approval actually called me at 10:00 pm & I answered the phone. Needless to say, I'm not dealing with this person anymore.

[Summer90]

Looks aren't the only reason I would date someone but of course they matter somewhat to the people involved.

People choose people for lots of reasons, there's more involvement than just the physical aspect. I've gone on a few dates where I wasn't immediately attracted to them but they grew on me because of their other qualities.

[RiYad]

You can date anyone and feel attracted to anyone if they have right personality?
Even a short ugly guy?

[Summer90]

@RiYad if I found a guy ugly I wouldn't date him. Ugly is subjective to each person. His height wouldn't matter.

[RiYad]

So u can date a guy who is shorter than you?

[Summer90]

@RiYad yes I would

[RiYad]

In your dream or in reality

[pooper89]

I've thought about it but I don't think it'd be fair to the other person, no matter how much money they made or how much of a good friend they are. If they have physical attraction for me but I don't have it for them, it's cruel to do that -both for me and for him

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction. ...

[Sowhoawolf]

i have dated really good looking girls
faces
body
and there personality wasn't attractive most of the time

then for a long time i couldnt get a date so i lowered my standards to a couple fat girls, when i saw them naked i was repulsed and there personality on top of that wasn't attractive either. so yea i would rather date a hot bitch then a fat none attractive nice girl.

[MysteriousDarkness]

Big women can be gorgeous and have a wonderful personality. My girlfriend is on

[MysteriousDarkness]

one not on

[Soremain]

No, but the beauty of it is that even if I don't find the girl physically attractive at first, I will find her physically attractive if I really like her. But this doesn't mean I will date a obese girl.

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldn't date someone I don't find attractive due to romantic or sexual reasons, but if I had to, I possibly will for financial/career reasons. In this case, for me it'll be less of a relationship, more of an investment/business transaction.
For instance if I had a Boss who wanted me and I knew it'll help me climb the career ladder.
Or just some lady who was bloody rich.

In conclusion, I won't "date" someone I don't find attractive, but I'd have a sugar mummy

[Anonymous]

She wouldn't have to look like a supermodel, but she would have to be at least average-looking in my eyes.

There have been times where I didn't think a girl was physically attractive at first, but as I got to know her a bit better, I developed a crush on her. This sounds weird, but the more I like a girl personality-wise, the prettier she appears to me...

[thesongwentonforever]

I'm going to be honest, the looks are what brings my attention, the personality is what makes me want to talk to them more than once/fall in love.

[RiYad]

So you can date any one if them have personality?

[Ariesealey]

No... I have to be attracted to them physically, otherwise no..: I've tried to date for personality and it doesn't work

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[JSmith925]

Yes I would and I have. Surprising, they turned out to be far more attractive than I initially realized. You never know what someone has for you until you give them a chance. The best qualities are not always visible from the surface.
~JSmith

[TripleAce]

Looks is like everything at first. Personality only shines after

Even personality is projected through expressions and the way the person looks. Ever notice people sometimes say 'he looks so gentle and calm' as an example

[Dim1213]

My friend's wife was originally not attracted to him but over time they grew together and now she would not have any one else.

[bloodmountain1990]

Yeah one of my friends just started dating a new guy and she admits she has no physical attraction but has a great personality. I could never date a girl I have no physical attraction to but to each their own.

[VerbalWN]

No. There looks is what gets my attention. The personality is what keeps me interested.

[allahu_snackbar]

No. It's utterly shallow because people are so much more than their looks, but physical attraction is just part of the equation and that's the way it is.

[WhereIsMyMind]

No I wouldn't be able to do that, I just wouldn't be able to bring myself to be intimate with them and I would never feel fully comfortable in the relationship.

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction...

Girls say this.

[WhereIsMyMind]

@RiYad whilst that's true, it doesn't mean girls don't look at guys looks at all. For me personally, I may find a guy very attractive but if his personality isn't good I won't want to be with him because it's a turn off.

However if I find a guy unattractive but he has a great personality I still can't be with him, because unfortunately looks do matter on some level. I won't be able to feel a physical spark there so I won't want to be intimate with them. I simply want a man that I find physically attractive, and has a good personality. It's just nature.

But don't generalise girls as if they *all* think the same way, because they don't. It's just like how some guys are very shallow and want looks the most but others don't mind too much as long as the personality is good. Everyone is different.

[RiYad]

If it's true then physically attractive guys vs physically unattractive guys = no effect.
Because girls don't experience any attraction physically or sexually instantly when they see attractive guys. They feel it after dating or after knowing him, and it's because of their personality.

Do you feel instant physical attraction when you see attractive, sexy guys?
Or at first you can just recognize them that they are attractive then if them show interest, if they talk to you then you start to feel attraction. Before it your feelings is just neutral?

[Mirjana01]

There is a line I wouldn't cross, I usually date people who are in my leauge. Sometimes I went on dates with guys who weren't very attractive but I saw something interesting in them, so generally I am open to everyone who makes me interested. MOst of the times it's self confidence and style that counts. But I consider myself as a pretty woman who cares a lot about her appearance, health and fitness, so I would't want to date someone who is totally "below my level".

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[Maik567]

No one should date someone they don't find attractive. That's not fair for either party. Everyone deserves someone who genuinely finds them attractive.

[Cloudy25]

No without the attraction it wouldn't be possible to have a decent sexual relationship or even a romantic one.

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

Girls are incapable to feel attraction instantly... gag girls say this

[Cloudy25]

@RiYad well gag girls are not very common then, most girls get attracted to guys that they find hot. Even with your theory it wouldn't work because personality alone doesn't create physical attraction, you could get to know someone really well and decide that you love their personality, but if you don't find them attractive, it's just too bad.

[RiYad]

See other girls comments.
Thinking someone hot and feel physical attraction is different think. Girls also think others girl is hot but do they feel physical attraction when they see hot girls?

If yes then ok.

But most girls say before knowing them person guys and girls are just another person to them. No attraction no tingle

[Cloudy25]

I don't think it works that way. If it did, what separates a girl from a guy to a straight person? If they can only acknowledge both genders looks but not feel attracted, then going by your theory if their personality is great, then they'll get atttracted to both genders? A straight person is only attracted to guys, so there is a difference between the two genders and I believe that is the attraction.

[RiYad]

If they can only acknowledge both genders looks but not feel attracted or not feel any attraction then why don't they choose girls with great personality? Because at first physical appearance do nothing for them?
They are neutral to both gender. Personality is not gender specific traits so then any great personality can attract you, can't it?

[Cloudy25]

@RiYad that's why I'm saying that there is physical attraction as opposed to what you've heard.

[RiYad]

But it's also said that, girls don't experience any attraction physically or sexually just from visual. I mean when they see guys and girls they can just acknowledge them or neutrally recognize them.

[Aassem]

Looks isn't the only thing that can make you phyisically attracted to someone, the attitude and the vibe can be more attractive than looks.

[Aassem]

But without physical attraction I wouldn't date someone no.

[martyfellow]

They might be very interesting and thoughtful people, and who knows, you may come to find them attractive because of that, with time.

[Summer90]

Totally agree!

[akadatank44]

No, buy I know attraction can grow overtime, more so in women.

[Astoriana]

I have in the past. He still cheated on me.

Wouldn't do it again.

[bloodmountain1990]

What does him not being attractive have to do with cheating?

[Astoriana]

@bloodmountain1990 one would expect that he was too ugly to have two women interested in him, no?

[bloodmountain1990]

Meh, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What may be attractive to one may not be to another.

[DodgersGM]

Nope, there's no point. Actually, I think it'd be kind of... rude.

[godfatherfan]

I think only women do that. I see some really fugly men with amazing women. Never understood that.

[red324]

Those are sugar daddies

[Regular1]

I can fuck a bitch that I'm not all that attracted to. If she is good in bed, I can overlook other things. As long as she's not so ugly that I'm embarrassed to be seen in public with her, we're good.

[soccerchick4eva]

Physically and emotionally attracted is important to me, looks matter just as personality matters

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[soccerchick4eva]

@RiYad you see a person's physical looks is what you see before you approach a person, and then they start to talk and you get to know them, meaning personality then shows.

[RiYad]

Lol
You can recognize whether a girl is attractive or not. Then what does it mean?

If you find a girl attractive does it mean you are physically attracted to her?

[Prof_Don]

No way, because I won't be satisfied and will be tempted to cheat (and might cheat)

[Anonymous]

Why would you date someone you aren't attracted to?

I'm sorry looks do matter at least a little bit.

[Asker]

many desperate people out there..

[naraku]

No. There has to be a level of attraction there otherwise I may as well talk to a wall.

[realperson02]

Would you date someone you don't find physically attractive?
but why?

[adamshunglol]

i mean if i have to look at her everyday she better have some big ass tits... or a phat ass... of a pretty face

[Anonymous]

Dating someone you don't find physically attractive is like lying to that person. The truth will come out eventually and they may be devastated.

[Anonymous]

I did recently me and her are still kind of dating but I was kind of getting desperate so I decided to settle

[Asker]

are you serious with her?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah we've already gotten intimate a few times

[Asker]

oh ok. how long have you been with her?

[Opinion Owner]

Like three and a half months now

[Anonymous]

no i wouldn't date somebody who i don't find physically attractive

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[Opinion Owner]

@RiYad that's true, most girls don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. some girls do. like for example, if a girl seen a guy who was attractive physically, she would see the "mental and emotional" attractiveness first. majourity of girls get more physically attracted to a guy by time, some get physically attracted to a guy instantly. it all depends on the person, really

[RiYad]

Then why don't you date an unattractive guy. Because you don't feel any attraction physically or sexually when you see attractive guys. Girls see the emotional attractiveness first. Then why do physically attractiveness matter? Lol

[QuerulousXytenar]

Fake-ism is over rated. Using Fake pink account is strictly prohibited. Anonymous (18-24

[Opinion Owner]

@RiYad not all girls see that. girls tend to split "attractiveness" 50/50. she looks at 50% physical appearance and 50% mental/emotional (or whatever you want to call it). i'm generally like this. if i see a guy who's appearance is 100% but his personality/attitude is 0%, then no. if i see a guy who's appearance is or is less than 50% but his personality/attitude is 50% or over, then id consider being a really good friend of his for the moment and if things progress, then they do

[Opinion Owner]

@QuerulousXytenar how am i using a fake pink account? I'm between the ages of 18 - 24 and i am a girl. how is that fake?

[QuerulousXytenar]

you said, most girls don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. that means when do you see hot guys you can just acknowledged them same as gay guy acknowledge hot women. isn't it funny?

[Opinion Owner]

@QuerulousXytenar yes we do. That's what makes us attracted to a guy unless you're asexual and feel no physical or sexual in which I am not asexual. Girls date guys based on physical appearance like guys do the same to girls. But, girls don't just go for appearance, we go for the mental and emotional aspects too with it

[QuerulousXytenar]

Look at your previous comment. You said most girls don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person.

[Opinion Owner]

@QuerulousXytenar by that, I was meaning only physical attraction and absolutely nothing else

[QuerulousXytenar]

So, according to this...

If it's true then physically attractive guys vs physically unattractive guys = no effect.
Because girls don't experience any attraction physically or sexually instantly when they see attractive guys. They feel it after dating or after knowing him, and it's because of their personality.

Do you feel instant physical attraction when you see attractive, sexy guys?
Or at first you can just recognize them that they are attractive then if they show interest, if they talk to you then you start to feel attraction. Before it your feelings is just neutral?

[Opinion Owner]

@QuerulousXytenar yes girls do! i've said this a bazillion times fgs! if you're hetero/straight like myself, you'll feel instant physical and sexual attraction to the person; in my case a guy and yours a girl. if i see an attractive guy, he only IS ATTRACTIVE cuz I AM PHYSICALLY and SEXUALLY ATTRACTED TO HIM THE SECOND I SEE HIM!!

when i had a boyfriend last year, he was only my boyfriend because i was physically and sexually attracted to him and i liked his personality. here's something to dumb it down for you...

a girl sees a guy she likes. it means he IS PHYSICALLY AND SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE TO HER! but if he has the looks and whatever and his personality ISN'T good, she WON'T DATE HIM!!

i'm not arguing anymore over something pointless because there's no use. if you can't figure out what I've said over and over and over again, that's your friggin issue; not mine. goodbye

[2old4starwars]

I can't lie. I wouldn't be able to date someone who I didn't find physically attractive. It's the first thing that I notice.

[Anonymous]

I mean this is how you get friendzoned. If you are friends with a girl, they most likely like your personality, just not you physically.

[Lumberman53]

To be honest there has to be some level of attraction

[bloodmountain1990]

Exactly. They don't gotta be knockout gorgeous but at least somewhat attractive but also have a good personality too.

[Anonymous]

I could but why would I? I feel insincere because I see them more as a friend

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[Opinion Owner]

@RiYad If personality was everything we wouldn't end up with jerks now would we? You need to meet more girls because your perspective is off. Better yet stop listening to girls and talk to some women!

[RiYad]

So I was wrong?
Even most pink account of Gag say wrong thing to me?

[Opinion Owner]

@RiYad you can't apply an all everything approach is all I'm saying. Maybe the majority of girls are how you think but not all

[RiYad]

Ok. Majority of girls are indifferent about guys and physical attractiveness do nothing for them.

[angelica453]

Yea a female can have everything but at the end of the day she's not taken serious especially if she's easy or stupid same with men lmao.

[RiYad]

hahaha then why women don't date short men?

[TheSniper]

No I wouldn't. Looks aren't everything but they are indeed something.

[Anonymous]

That's a good question. I wouldn't. Maybe some guys have poor taste in women or just don't give a damn.

[RJGraveyTrain]

No I would not.

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[RJGraveyTrain]

@RiYad it isn't for me. If there's no physical attraction I won't date you. It'll affect the physical aspect of the relationship.

[RJGraveyTrain]

@RiYad Also I can feel physical attraction without knowing a guy just fine. Lol.

[RiYad]

Do you feel instant physical attraction when you see attractive, sexy guys?
Or at first you can just recognize them that they are attractive then if them show interest, if they talk to you then you start to feel attraction. Before it your feelings is just neutral?

[RJGraveyTrain]

@RiYad God you're one of them. Lol. I can feel physical attraction but I don't instantly want to fuck a guy: that's where I feel like I have to get to know a guy.

[RiYad]

I thought different aliens live in Gag. And gag girls are from different planet that's why I ask this. Because gag girls are asexual until they get to know the person. Physical appearance never sexually affect them.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Lmao what?

[RiYad]

What?
Girls feel neutral when they see hot guys. Because they are unknown to them.

[RJGraveyTrain]

@RiYad The fact that you think you know how women feel when you have a penis is hilarious to me.

Get facts outside of the internet, Chuck.

[Asker]

@RiYad you are so irritating. stop commenting bullshit.

[RiYad]

I aslo heard it from real women. Even every women say this. When they see guys and girls they can just acknowledge them. Nothing more than that

[Anonymous]

I'm thinking about it I'm 25 and never had a serious girlfriend so i probably will settle for what I can get soon

[bloodmountain1990]

You won't be happier, trust me.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm probably not gonna have another choice well actually I could I could do what nick cannon did in love don't cost a thing and pay for it

[Journey174]

Good combination of both 👌🏼

[cocoaniable]

To me there has to be some kind of attraction

[RiYad]

Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

Girls don't any attraction when they see guys but after an emotional connection they start to feel attraction physically. GAG girls say this.

[Maxine_Payne]

No. And looks DO matter.

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[Maxine_Payne]

@RiYad rofl... I don't know what girls you know or have been talking to.

[RiYad]

I am talking about women in general.

Because girls on gag (different planet) say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

[lovelyhoneybones]

People are more than their outer appearance.

[RiYad]

So, you like to to date a short and ugly guy?

[lovelyhoneybones]

@RiYad The definition of ugly is subjective. What you find as ugly may not be ugly to me. And what I find ugly may not be ugly to you. I would prefer to date a guy who is an average height or tall, but if I fell in love with a short man, then so be it.

[RiYad]

Do u ever fall in love with short man? Or it's ur imagination?

[RedThread]

Nah. That wouldn't be fair to me or her.

[TacosRAwesome]

Did in the past. He was a cunt. Never again.

[BertMacklinFBI]

was he always a cunt or was he just a cunt because you didn't find him attractive

[TacosRAwesome]

@BertMacklinFBI he was not bad at the start, I loved his company which was why I dated him, but then he became controlling and nothing I did was right. Eventually I started finding him unattractive in both areas.

[Viranda]

If other people consideres him attractive, yes.

[UnknownXYZ]

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Why the hell would you care if other people consider him attractive?

[Ssimon91]

@UnknownXYZ people care about social acceptance

[SuitAndTie]

I agree with @UnknownXYZ why does it matter if other people consider him attractive or not,

[Viranda]

@SuitAndTie Because a partner is a complement for my own image. And in bed I can just lay down and wait, not big deal.

[SuitAndTie]

Can't tell if you're being sarcastic or not 🤔

[BertMacklinFBI]

the point being?

[Asker]

Im ASKING mate

[BertMacklinFBI]

ayee mate :P

[Anonymous]

I did and I don't recommend it lol

[RiYad]

Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.

Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.

[Opinion Owner]

@RiYad of course it is, but sexual attraction is important too. i want to look at him too and not feel disgusted or ashamed

[RiYad]

But do u feel physical attraction before knowing the person. It's said that for women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.