No. It's utterly shallow because people are so much more than their looks, but physical attraction is just part of the equation and that's the way it is.
No I wouldn't be able to do that, I just wouldn't be able to bring myself to be intimate with them and I would never feel fully comfortable in the relationship.
Why? Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.
Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction...
@RiYad whilst that's true, it doesn't mean girls don't look at guys looks at all. For me personally, I may find a guy very attractive but if his personality isn't good I won't want to be with him because it's a turn off.
However if I find a guy unattractive but he has a great personality I still can't be with him, because unfortunately looks do matter on some level. I won't be able to feel a physical spark there so I won't want to be intimate with them. I simply want a man that I find physically attractive, and has a good personality. It's just nature.
But don't generalise girls as if they *all* think the same way, because they don't. It's just like how some guys are very shallow and want looks the most but others don't mind too much as long as the personality is good. Everyone is different.
If it's true then physically attractive guys vs physically unattractive guys = no effect. Because girls don't experience any attraction physically or sexually instantly when they see attractive guys. They feel it after dating or after knowing him, and it's because of their personality.
Do you feel instant physical attraction when you see attractive, sexy guys? Or at first you can just recognize them that they are attractive then if them show interest, if they talk to you then you start to feel attraction. Before it your feelings is just neutral?
There is a line I wouldn't cross, I usually date people who are in my leauge. Sometimes I went on dates with guys who weren't very attractive but I saw something interesting in them, so generally I am open to everyone who makes me interested. MOst of the times it's self confidence and style that counts. But I consider myself as a pretty woman who cares a lot about her appearance, health and fitness, so I would't want to date someone who is totally "below my level".
Why? Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.
Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.
No one should date someone they don't find attractive. That's not fair for either party. Everyone deserves someone who genuinely finds them attractive.
Why? Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.
Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.
Girls are incapable to feel attraction instantly... gag girls say this
@RiYad well gag girls are not very common then, most girls get attracted to guys that they find hot. Even with your theory it wouldn't work because personality alone doesn't create physical attraction, you could get to know someone really well and decide that you love their personality, but if you don't find them attractive, it's just too bad.
See other girls comments. Thinking someone hot and feel physical attraction is different think. Girls also think others girl is hot but do they feel physical attraction when they see hot girls?
If yes then ok.
But most girls say before knowing them person guys and girls are just another person to them. No attraction no tingle
I don't think it works that way. If it did, what separates a girl from a guy to a straight person? If they can only acknowledge both genders looks but not feel attracted, then going by your theory if their personality is great, then they'll get atttracted to both genders? A straight person is only attracted to guys, so there is a difference between the two genders and I believe that is the attraction.
If they can only acknowledge both genders looks but not feel attracted or not feel any attraction then why don't they choose girls with great personality? Because at first physical appearance do nothing for them? They are neutral to both gender. Personality is not gender specific traits so then any great personality can attract you, can't it?
But it's also said that, girls don't experience any attraction physically or sexually just from visual. I mean when they see guys and girls they can just acknowledge them or neutrally recognize them.
I can fuck a bitch that I'm not all that attracted to. If she is good in bed, I can overlook other things. As long as she's not so ugly that I'm embarrassed to be seen in public with her, we're good.
Why? Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.
Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.
@RiYad you see a person's physical looks is what you see before you approach a person, and then they start to talk and you get to know them, meaning personality then shows.
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No. There looks is what gets my attention. The personality is what keeps me interested.
No. It's utterly shallow because people are so much more than their looks, but physical attraction is just part of the equation and that's the way it is.
No I wouldn't be able to do that, I just wouldn't be able to bring myself to be intimate with them and I would never feel fully comfortable in the relationship.
Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.
Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction...
Girls say this.
@RiYad whilst that's true, it doesn't mean girls don't look at guys looks at all. For me personally, I may find a guy very attractive but if his personality isn't good I won't want to be with him because it's a turn off.
However if I find a guy unattractive but he has a great personality I still can't be with him, because unfortunately looks do matter on some level. I won't be able to feel a physical spark there so I won't want to be intimate with them. I simply want a man that I find physically attractive, and has a good personality. It's just nature.
But don't generalise girls as if they *all* think the same way, because they don't. It's just like how some guys are very shallow and want looks the most but others don't mind too much as long as the personality is good. Everyone is different.
If it's true then physically attractive guys vs physically unattractive guys = no effect.
Because girls don't experience any attraction physically or sexually instantly when they see attractive guys. They feel it after dating or after knowing him, and it's because of their personality.
Do you feel instant physical attraction when you see attractive, sexy guys?
Or at first you can just recognize them that they are attractive then if them show interest, if they talk to you then you start to feel attraction. Before it your feelings is just neutral?
There is a line I wouldn't cross, I usually date people who are in my leauge. Sometimes I went on dates with guys who weren't very attractive but I saw something interesting in them, so generally I am open to everyone who makes me interested. MOst of the times it's self confidence and style that counts. But I consider myself as a pretty woman who cares a lot about her appearance, health and fitness, so I would't want to date someone who is totally "below my level".
Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.
Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.
No one should date someone they don't find attractive. That's not fair for either party. Everyone deserves someone who genuinely finds them attractive.
No without the attraction it wouldn't be possible to have a decent sexual relationship or even a romantic one.
Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.
Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.
Girls are incapable to feel attraction instantly... gag girls say this
@RiYad well gag girls are not very common then, most girls get attracted to guys that they find hot. Even with your theory it wouldn't work because personality alone doesn't create physical attraction, you could get to know someone really well and decide that you love their personality, but if you don't find them attractive, it's just too bad.
See other girls comments.
Thinking someone hot and feel physical attraction is different think. Girls also think others girl is hot but do they feel physical attraction when they see hot girls?
If yes then ok.
But most girls say before knowing them person guys and girls are just another person to them. No attraction no tingle
I don't think it works that way. If it did, what separates a girl from a guy to a straight person? If they can only acknowledge both genders looks but not feel attracted, then going by your theory if their personality is great, then they'll get atttracted to both genders? A straight person is only attracted to guys, so there is a difference between the two genders and I believe that is the attraction.
If they can only acknowledge both genders looks but not feel attracted or not feel any attraction then why don't they choose girls with great personality? Because at first physical appearance do nothing for them?
They are neutral to both gender. Personality is not gender specific traits so then any great personality can attract you, can't it?
@RiYad that's why I'm saying that there is physical attraction as opposed to what you've heard.
But it's also said that, girls don't experience any attraction physically or sexually just from visual. I mean when they see guys and girls they can just acknowledge them or neutrally recognize them.
Looks isn't the only thing that can make you phyisically attracted to someone, the attitude and the vibe can be more attractive than looks.
But without physical attraction I wouldn't date someone no.
They might be very interesting and thoughtful people, and who knows, you may come to find them attractive because of that, with time.
Totally agree!
No, buy I know attraction can grow overtime, more so in women.
I have in the past. He still cheated on me.
Wouldn't do it again.
What does him not being attractive have to do with cheating?
@bloodmountain1990 one would expect that he was too ugly to have two women interested in him, no?
Meh, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What may be attractive to one may not be to another.
Nope, there's no point. Actually, I think it'd be kind of... rude.
I think only women do that. I see some really fugly men with amazing women. Never understood that.
Those are sugar daddies
I can fuck a bitch that I'm not all that attracted to. If she is good in bed, I can overlook other things. As long as she's not so ugly that I'm embarrassed to be seen in public with her, we're good.
Physically and emotionally attracted is important to me, looks matter just as personality matters
Why?
Girls say they don't feel physical attraction before knowing the person. For women, it's a lot more typical to need a little bit more to feel physical attraction. When they see guys doesn't matter how hot they are they won't feel any attraction physically or sexually until they know him a little bit and until interaction with him.
Isn't personality is everything for women? Before knowing guys personalty girls don't experience physical attraction.
@RiYad you see a person's physical looks is what you see before you approach a person, and then they start to talk and you get to know them, meaning personality then shows.
Lol
You can recognize whether a girl is attractive or not. Then what does it mean?
If you find a girl attractive does it mean you are physically attracted to her?
No way, because I won't be satisfied and will be tempted to cheat (and might cheat)
Why would you date someone you aren't attracted to?
I'm sorry looks do matter at least a little bit.
many desperate people out there..
No. There has to be a level of attraction there otherwise I may as well talk to a wall.
Would you date someone you don't find physically attractive?
but why?
i mean if i have to look at her everyday she better have some big ass tits... or a phat ass... of a pretty face
Dating someone you don't find physically attractive is like lying to that person. The truth will come out eventually and they may be devastated.