Would you still date/marry someone even if their looks were lacking?

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They aren’t the most attractive person but their personality is amazing and your connection is unbeatable. Would you still be with them even if their looks were lacking?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

When I like somebody when I date somebody it's because of who they are on the inside it's because they're beautiful on the inside it's because they are confident they're happy they're smart they're intelligent they are kind they are Giver they're just absolutely beautiful on the inside that's who they truly truly are the outside is just an all an extra bonus and I don't care what anybody says if you look into somebody's eyes and if you just look at that person you can find beauty everywhere maybe not at a glance at a quick glance but when you actually look at them maybe hold their hand you can see the beauty now are you asking the question as one person or you asking the question as what all your friends might think of this person because I see that quite often to where somebody will like somebody but their friends don't like them they don't think that their girl is sexier that guy is sexier beautiful or hot or whatever and that's sad that that interferes in things because you never know that could just be that person for you there's something that you like about that person so

UnknownSwede · Accepted Answer

Very few people end up with the person of their dreams, regarding looks.

As long as there is some kind of physical attraction, it doesn't matter if they are not everything I ever wanted (in a dream world).
Personal connection and chemistry is a lot more important to me, personally.

Blackcupcake · Accepted Answer

that’s very subjective…

I have rejected a dude who many girls were drooling over, he was just not attractive in my eyes. and I dated another dude instead who I was fairly attracted to and many of my girlfriends were like “HOW COULD YOU PICK HIM OVER THAT GUY!”. but that was just my personal opinion. so, you never know…

firstyesterday · Accepted Answer

Looks don't last forever and if you want a long lasting relationship with someone having a great connection with them is super important. You'd probably find that if you had a solid connection and you started dating you would end up becoming attracted to them anyway

Avicenna · Answer

Probably, yes, unless she was really ugly or obese. There are always extremes that are too whatever.

fbk94 · Answer

If you like it, you accept it anyway. In the meantime, I would appreciate it if you could comment on my question.  #Reigner

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Noura still didn’t show me Her full-face photograph, although She did say Her height (a few centimetres shorter than I), and I still want to marry Her, even if She is hideous, which I doubt. Besides, my comrade Ryan reckons that both of my 2015 prom dates Rachel and Carly were ugly, but I would date both of them anyway. Looks ain’t everything.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. She/he can be amazing/good looking…some may not be attracted. Others may love.
someone may be average.. they can be in love.
someone may even have terrible personality… still someway love them.

TommyWiseau69 · Answer

More often than not I find that attractive women are full of shit. They usually want very specific men and have insane standards. Plain Jane type of girls that are averagish or slightly below are more chill amd better to spend time with.

xInquisitivex · Answer

What is lacking?

Good looking to one may be ugly to another.

Mother/baby syndrome. Mothers see their beautiful children through rose tinted glasses whereas other parents might see an ugly looking baby. It happens.

Do you look at your own kids and think 'OMG what a disgusting looking child'?

Thought as much!

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Why not, everyone loses looks with time... if someone gets married for looks, that is a sign that a decade or two down the road they are going to leave them for an upgrade.

Haha456 · Answer

depends on how much lacking. even if he is not the most attractive guy , he must be my type. there must be some sort of physical attraction. otherwise, forget about sex.

TroyDT2 · Answer

As the song goes...

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yeah I don't... well didn't date for looks and honestly will go as far to say that I ironically scored better with more attractive, intelligent women by focusing on the second feature rather than the first

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

No, as someone who retains his looks well past what most people think is possible, let alone reasonable, I now expect women to retain them just as long, and see failure to do so as an intelligence test.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as I find them attractive, it would be alright.

They don't need to be the most attractive person, really.

But if I can't feel any attraction towards the person, I couldn't get into a relationship with them either lol.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Depends what that entails.  I'm not into the Hollywood 10/10 good looking guy. But I want to be attracted to my partner

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yes!! As long as she's a 6 or above.

I say that because I have to be honest with myself and the people I'm dating. If I'm not attracted to a woman, then I cannot love her in a romantic way. Our relationship would be a lie.

boggboss · Answer

All that matters is if I'm attracted to them that's what's most important

Rania05 · Answer

My past crushes weren't the kind to stand out for their looks except one

rienna888 · Answer

I’ve tried dating people I wasn’t attracted to but never works out because I don’t feel attracted enough, despite the chemistry.

Tina19 · Answer

If there is no sexual attraction no chemistry then it's a no for me

AsaKyo · Answer

I don't care if they're "lacking" Would rather be with someone interesting and fun than someone boring as fuck

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Depends on how lacking we are talking about. I don't want perfection but I want someone appealing.

Zolly99999 · Answer

Yes I have... there is more to a person then looks alone... and thank God some girls feel the same way or I'd never get dates 🤣🤣

Anonymous · Answer

If you love someone you'll learn to see them as attractive. My ex isn't an attractive woman but I thought she looked great no matter what. Same with her view of me

Headstrongcrazylover · Answer

Looks are important for me. No Compromise on hot girl.

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Can she cook? Can she clean? Is her sex game a winner? Does she know how to be quiet?

Anonymous · Answer

How lacking? I'm not going to marry someone I'm not attracted to at all physically.

jimmy2 · Answer

You know what she got it right inside yes come home baby

TheUniqueOne96 · Answer

If they were attractive enough, then yeah.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I married my husband for his personality.

Rockstarrrrr · Answer

Too young for that lol

BJP21 · Answer

How they treat you matters.

Wise4myage · Answer

No, most likely not.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

If I find them attractive sure

Anonymous · Answer

I have before. I don't know about now! Depends

Anonymous · Answer

If he is really interest in me I will

Anonymous · Answer

10000000% yes

Joker_ · Answer

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