All of our dates have been great (we’ve had 9). Our last date was 27 November, after not seeing him for 2 weeks. We have been chatting fine since our last date, however this week I noticed he has been a bit off when texting and not really making a conversation. He is quite a quiet guy, however this feels different. I asked him out for coffee one evening this week and he replied “I’m just not really in the mood sorry”. I said that was okay maybe another time but he didn’t offer a new time. I have been texting him a bit since but there’s not much chat! We always ask how each others day is going, recently he’s just been saying okay and he replied to some of my messages with just an emoji so it kinda cuts the conversation. I’m not sure if he is going through something personal, at work or he’s just lost all interest in talking or seeing me again. I feel like I’m just annoying him at this point. I may just be overthinking but I don’t know what I should do. We get on really well and have a good connection.
3 months dating, I think something has gone wrong. But maybe I’m overthinking?
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He is extremely affectionate around me too!
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It's hard to say what's actually happened (only he could possibly know), but sometimes things seem to plateau if they don't get serious and then interest is lost because it seems like momentum is lost and you're not going anywhere exclusive.
Should I bring up then about exclusive?
If that's what you want, you definitely should be talking about it by now
So many red flags. Move on now!
So many red flags?
This looks like a disaster waiting to happen