My boyfriend refuses to tell me how old he is?

[Anonymous]

We've been dating a year, I don't know his age or where he lives. He refuses to tell me and won't let me near his wallet, we've been dating a Yr and he wants to have sex, I wouldn't mind but everytike I ask his age or where he lives he changes subject or doesn't look at me and lies about it. worse he doesn't want to use a condom for our first time. Says he's scared to scare me off but this is gonna scare me off more.

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+1 y

I broke up with him problems solved gave him the ultimatum

[integrale77]

Very suspicious sounds like he doesn't want you to know who he really is.
He probably has a picture of the wife and kids in his wallet.

Some things to think are how often is he with you. what does he say he does for work and what he does when away from you?

If I where you I'd tell him your legs remain closed till he gives some answers and be prepared to stick to it.

[integrale77]

Thanks for the superb opinion hope you have worked things out?

[Alex-Snow]

He just wants u for the sex. You have every right to know more about him including his "real" name and age. He may be married or already have a girlfriend and just wants to fool around. Do not even consider sex with him especially without a condom. Do you want to be a young mommy or get an STI? How old are you? If u had 2 guess how old do you think he is? Can you follow him on Insta or FB to learn more about him?

[Lyndsielee666]

Girl lmfao if you don’t google that man and find out his age

[EmmaMary]

Just three words...Huge Red Flags.

[EmmaMary]

Oh and Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[Marcia1218]

@EmmaMary Either a troll or our famous Anonymous "Guy pretending to be a girl" question... LOL

[EmmaMary]

@Marcia1218

Yet again you're quite possibly right.

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[boggboss]

I'm sorry this can't be real I refuse to believe u dated a guy for a year and was never told his age

[EmmaMary]

@boggboss

I was actually considering giving this one of my usual daily awards!

[boggboss]

Its got to be I immediately screen spotted and asked a group of friends to see if I was bugging lol

[Asker]

I did its really stupid, his age isn't on Google.

[boggboss]

Why would u date a guy for a year without knowing his age you are ridicules

[Asker]

I've been dodging being alone with him all Yr by dragging my friends or sisters along and going to places I have friends and relatives working at and have my siblings pick me up.

[boggboss]

Why are u still with him if u can't even trust him

[Flatmanlewis]

I’m no expert, but to me: This is not a boyfriend. This is an extramarital affair and you are his side action.

[Ironic_Method]

Deception is deception. If he is willing to hide something like his age from you, he's willing to hide more problematic things for sure.

[Tim2nice]

You can look at his passport or driving licence

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Then you don't have sex if you're not trusting him. Lots of big red flags here.

[jahaims]

You have been dating for a year and don't even know their age.. that is bat shit

[Jmmmfi4]

YEAH... there's SOMETHING SERIOUSLY WRONG HERE

[riverrat3]

Just tell him if he cannot tell you then it is over

[Thestupidusername]

That's a huge red flag..

[exitseven]

Is he too young or too old?

[Dargil]

Look him up online

[Wise4myage]

That's a red flag in my opinion.

[CubaPirate]

May I ask why TF he's still your boyfriend

[jimmy2]

Well look at his license