My boyfried hides me?

[Anonymous]

why he doesn't want his friends to meet me

He says they are jealous... is it truth?

On the beach he said he can't take me anywhere, people are staring at me

Men look at me and sometimes make comments and he always notices it

[RoseySarah]

This boyfriend has huge jealousy issues which is a big red flag.

He probably rarely gets a girlfriend and this probably drives her away fast!

He is hiding you for his insecurities and won't ever show you off worried someone might catch your eye.

Give it a month before your bored and stressed from him!

[Asker]

Wheb we are out he always notices that people a re staring at me
I dont im used to it, but he does
Whenever his friends say or joke bout smth his answe is :they arr just jealous
He has other friend who he meets only saturdays nights, he never wants me to meet him
When he introduced me to him he said :uuuyyyy the way he is looking at you, i must be careful. but i dont think he will do anything becaue he respects me.
I was like... Hello? I think i might jave to say in this situation as well.
Id never even look at that guy, he is so damn ugly and drug dealer and has 3 kids and eww
Can you imagine!!!
I was fuming

[RoseySarah]

Haha yeah had a boyfriend who was like that bragging every guy wanted me eventually he will start to say don't look at him you look like you want him! Gross!

Yeah that guy has huge issues 😔.

Thinking you can't control yourself 🤔 or his friends could never control themselves just saying hi!

[Asker]

I noticed if we are having beers or coffee with his friends and when he leaves to have a smoke outside they spek to me, when he comes back they shut up and ignore me
Even when they are being just normal friendly and polite ask me smth, i start answering and if my boyfriend enters they shut up and couple of times i felt stupid since i was still talking

[RoseySarah]

Nope your doing great! They know he has huge jealousy issues and will start a fight if they even so much as talk with you.

That sounds so abusive! I'd be mad that he won't let me chat with his friends!

Imagine being married him being the only one you can talk with!

We have game nights friends over and group hang outs!

He is making you sound like a caged bird! Surprised the friends did not ask if you need help!

[Asker]

Well i talk with them as well when he is sitting with me
But yeah
Many times when im on my own they stop talking to me
Also we spwnd lots of time at home
Only times we are out is or shopping or restaurant
No movies no parks no beach
Nothing

[Asker]

He just accused me of stealing HIS jeans
Wtf
He cannot find them since his housr i s a mess and since im the only one at his house he asks me that
Do you find it normal?
Fucking idiot

[RoseySarah]

Why no parks or beaches or movies! 🎥🤔

[RoseySarah]

That is so not normal and yeah huge idiot!
My hubby would never accuse me of that!

He is just dumb

[Asker]

I dont know
He doesn't want to
I always suggest and he wants to stay at home

[RoseySarah]

Probably thinks guys will stare at you int he movies! 🍿

We go have picknivks and date nights!

Hope he goes you one for those or is he to cheap?

[RoseySarah]

Just buying his drugs

[Asker]

We have date night sometimes yes

[cherriibly]

This is BIG RED FLAG, RUN

[JacobJordan]

No guy wants his friends to meet his girlfriend. We are FRIENDS with them we KNOW what they going to do.

[Gent207-2]

HOIST THE RED FLAG AND RUN

He's manipulative, controlling, gaslighting and will most likely be abusive

[Asker]

Well damn
Now what to do?
Can you elaborate?

[Gent207-2]

Break-up with him
Block him on all social media
Avoid him at all costs
NEVER LOOK BACK

[EmmaMary]

Time you found yourself a more secure boyfriend.

[Asker]

Well
I dont know yet

[EmmaMary]

Either moan, groan and put up with it.
Or do something positive about it.

[Sirenboobzilla]

The crimson flags are huge here. I can't tell if he has serious Jealousy issues or if you're the one on the side

[Wise4myage]

That's a red flag in my opinion, because he should want to introduce to his friends.

[Asker]

He acts like hos friend wouod flirt
And he says all his frirnds are jealous

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, that's very lame.

[Asker]

Why he says that?

[Wise4myage]

Id ask him.

[CubaPirate]

You're probably his side chick

[Asker]

I stay 2 days per week at his house
Sometimes is from 2 to 4 days in a row
basically living with him
I have my cloths, my cosmetics in his house
I talk to him everyday
He says good night and good morning every day to me
How am i his side chick?

[CubaPirate]

OK cool it was just a thought before I knew all that

[Asker]

No idea why he is like that...🫤

[CubaPirate]

Have you asked him outright, maybe he's insecure about your relationship