She said to see others but is being a little weird now?

[Justwondering2015]

The woman I’ve started dating is also seeing someone else. She said she doesn’t want me to get attached and to see others as well as her.

I slept with another woman and told her about it as she tells me. She’s not been how she normally is since. I’m guessing she’s jealous? I don’t get it though, she’s seeing others and didn’t want me to be attached?

[On_cloud_wine]

I once had a guy tell me to not tell him such things.. if I was sleeping or dating others. But she sounds like me A LOT.. i fantasize telling a guy who has a liking for me “to keep dating.. not to wait for me.”

I have some trauma I have to deal with and I am in Jo state of mind to be in a relationship right now

[On_cloud_wine]

And when he does date others..( I mean I rejected him.. ) so he was in denial at first, now he’s angry… he’s rebounding. And we were never even in a relationship.. but him fucking another bitch is just making it so much easier to hold back.

[On_cloud_wine]

As much as I want him, I feel like I can’t give myself to someone until they know my background. So I’m cool with it, but also depressed because I haven’t fought my own internal battles yet and yet I lead him on.. I’m horrible

[ProbablyClueless]

It sounds like she is just one more of an all too common type of person in the dating market today.

She's terrified of being hurt and connecting with people, so she does things to intentionally keep you at a distance. But even though she's pushing you away, she's also desperate for human connection and can't handle the idea of sharing.

[Sparkie460]

She is totally jealous. She's seeing other guys but when you see other women she can't handle it. If I were you, I'd find someone else

[bunbunbunny]

She’s seeing other people, but it’s not like she’s having sex. Maybe stop being a whore? That’s probably why she’s looking for comfort in other men.

[Justwondering2015]

I didn’t explain it right. By seeing, I mean she’s having sex with them

[aceleon]

comfort in other men? nope, not happening, there can't be other men if the guy is not a cuck.

[aceleon]

and you are still talking to her? where is your balls? do you remeber their place? or did you never had them in the first place? what does she have to do in order for you to realize she is a worthless slut and an insufferable manipulator?

[7Phoenix7]

Why did you tell her about that?

[Justwondering2015]

She tells me about who she is seeing and wanted to be open. She wanted to know that I wasn’t attached to her and was seeing other people too

[7Phoenix7]

Yea but but seeing as in dating right? She probably wasn't expecting you to be having sex and then telling her about it lol I don't know

[Justwondering2015]

Sorry I meant having sex

[Wise4myage]

Correct, she is jealous.

[Justwondering2015]

But I don’t get why when I’m doing what she wants

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, girls can weird like that.

[bunbunbunny]

Or maybe ops a slut🤷🏻‍♀️