How to get my ex to move on?

[Anonymous]

He's remarried and I moved on , but he's worrying about what I'm doing?

[KittygosMeoWW]

Cut all contact with him if possible and if you have to coparent. Do not have a friendship with them until you’ve established boundaries.

[Asker]

Boundaries are in place- I'm at the bar and he's calling me about our daughters phone he's a nag 😒 he p me off dearly

[KittygosMeoWW]

Girl! I 100% get it I have to co parent too and my bd kissed me yesterday while I was discussing the expectations for Christmas.

You need to start documenting it and making it very clear what hours he can and cannot contact you about parenting things. Otherwise you won’t be able to move on. Ignore his ass.

[Asker]

Tf his focus should be his wife and I got on his ass yesterday

[KittygosMeoWW]

He is most likely in happy because he’s not happy with himself

[Asker]

Yep what I'm thinking- my journey ended with men after him and another former man.. never again.. I'm free and on another journey with women.. my true identity

[KittygosMeoWW]

I wouldn’t let a couple negative experiences with men discourage you. Whatever makes you happy but I wouldn’t classify all men as bad because of a couple of confused men.

[Asker]

I'm lesbian because it's who I am and can careless about men especially when there's no connection to them emotionally

[Asker]

I don't trust men and can careless about them exclusive my ex 💯.. he doesn't respect boundaries or anything I say

[KittygosMeoWW]

Ok whatever makes you happy

[Asker]

I believe there's decent men far few in between but why does it matter to me? I don't date men

[KittygosMeoWW]

Your initial statement sounded like you had given up on men based on your previous experiences not because of your sexuality. I personally cannot switch my sexuality based on experiences. That’s all.

[Asker]

I've been lesiban most of my life and hid my sexuality because of my religious and homophobic family- I'm out box now

[Asker]

I didn't switch my sexuality- when I felt comfortable I came out , but no not interested in men

[Asker]

Lesiban people don't wake up one day and decide to be gay or lesiban it's already embedded in you

[KittygosMeoWW]

Ok well glad you’re able to be yourself

[Asker]

Thanks and yes

[Yannae]

Block him everywhere.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

If you ignore it, it will go away

[Danny_dan92]

Block them

[Asker]

I wish I could I block his ass we co parent

[Danny_dan92]

Oh man… yikes

[Asker]

Ikr he seems miserable and I'm free

[Danny_dan92]

Sounds about right

[Asker]

Yep... waiting on my girlfriend now.

[Danny_dan92]

✂️ time

[Asker]

No lol just waiting on her I wish I could 😅 .. just waiting on my Mrs Right ✅️

[Danny_dan92]

✂️ time TBD

[Asker]

I wish lol I haven't met her yet still waiting on here where ever she is

[Danny_dan92]

Yeah

[KittygosMeoWW]

Lmao not the ✂️ time.

[Danny_dan92]

I mean. That’s how women make love together lmao that or strap ons

[KittygosMeoWW]

I might be wrong but not always lol I don’t think the scissor thing is accurate

[Danny_dan92]

I don't know. I’m just speculating

[KittygosMeoWW]

lol too cute

[Asker]

Strictly oral here Danny Dan hun I prefer oral pleasure giving and receiving - I domt use straps and you're talking about tribbing

[Danny_dan92]

Yep. A1

[Ironic_Method]

Ignoring him is probably a good start.