Is online dating a waste of time?

[Anonymous]

A waste

No it’s not

[Anonymous]

No. You just can't take it very serious. IRL a guys success rate is typically about 10% well online it's closer to 1%. So expect to get rejected 100 times for every success. In fact I recommend guys who use dating apps to not message women at all. The rules for online dating are different online. Good men are the rarity online. The women need to seek you.

Next make sure you have good pics. NOT SELFIES! Selfish say you're potentially a serial killer. Which only works with women if you're an exceptionally attractive serial killer. If that be the case she'll let you murder her all day.🤣 but I'm assuming that's not you so no selfies. Have pics that show many sides of you personalities. And pics at events so you don't look like a shut in.

Now that your Pic game is good. Don't go f***ing it up by saying something stupid in your bio. In fact I recommend not writing anything in your bio. Leave it blank! Trust me man, half the women don't even read them. And the ones that do will more likely be turned off by anything you say. Your mysteriousness is your ally. The stuff the goblins in her head will imagine about you will be more attractive to her than anything you can write.

Finally look at a lot of women profiles, but message NONE of them. Look at a few of them more than once even. This will send her the message that she caught your eye, but you ultimately passed on her. This will lower her self esteem while simultaneously making her want to gain your approval. No, they won't all message you. Again expect 1 in a 100. Dating is purely a numbers game for us men. Just sit back, grab a beer and just enjoy the fishing.

Good luck man!

[OddBeMe]

I came up just before that went mainline, and I’m not convinced it’s the best way. At least have the procedure in check. Use it like any social media and be ok with a meetup for coffee or a drink.

Bc it’s so easy to swipe, I think objectifying relationships and people more. But I may just be getting old.

[Nikki1989]

It is a waste of time and stupid considering you can walk out your front door and meet someone today. It is not difficult.

[LazerBean]

It's only a waste of time for people who are a waste of time

[systemsareyo]

Sometimes it's a waste. Sometimes it's just a lack of enough numbers in local areas, of the legitimate users even. It's weird though, either there's many singles or there's not enough singles, yet if there are or should be, they're not on dating apps, it's odd, true? 👌🏻👍👍🏻 Like, where are they. Lol.

[syncheart]

For an average or less then average guy it is a waste of time. Women are picky and they won't want you! For women, they get all kinds of messages from men, and can afford to be picky. For them it is wonderful!

[NathanDavis]

anything can be a waste of time if done wrong...

otherwise could be true as well

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, but offline dating is.

Locally my options are far more limited, whereas online lets me pick from anywhere, which allows me to find a perfect match.

[strateguy632]

from my experience a waste of time and money i stopped.

[Sparkie460]

I think it would be a waste of time. I haven't heard of any relationship lasting from online dating

[JacobJordan]

From what I hear and see dating in the US is a waste of time online or offline

[Ironic_Method]

Met my wife and a few other partners online. It's been great.

[MackBoy]

Online dating is not a waste because i found my true partner and about to settle within next 2 months of time.

[Iron_Man]

Yes it is Gold Digger city and the guys just went to get laid most of them

[KrakenAttackin]

For men it is a waste unless you are in the top 5%.

[Yannae]

It's not a waste. I've had success.

[vicphilips]

I dont think so