Girls, Whymy boyfriend always force me to eat even if I am not hungry and when we eat he always forces me to eat more than my usual meal and I gain40?

[Anonymous]

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4 mo

I gained 40 kilos since we started dating

[SueShe]

Don't you have an opinion of your own? Do you really have to obey to what your boyfriend commands you and jeopardize your own health? How long will it take you until you realize that you live in a toxic relation? When will you put your foot down and oppose his orders?

You are no longer a child but you act as one. If you had a minimum of self-respect and dignity, you would never have allowed the situation to develop to that extend.

You have basically 2 choices:

1. Either you react and tell him that he should stop commanding you around or

2. You leave him and get hold of your life again.

It is your choice but I am afraid that you will chose to remain a puppet your entire life since you haven't taken the initiative to get out of this toxic relationship. Your health seems to be less important than him it seems.

[Thestupidusername]

Sounds like a red flag unless you are starving yourself

[Anonymous]

You shouldn't be forced to do anything.