Hmm, I don't know man, that tip about using photos that only show off your looks seems a little shallow. Like yeah, you want your photos to be flattering and all, but what really matters is connecting with someone you click with on a deeper level.
Focusing too much on just physical appearance might attract people who are more into that than who you really are. And it could give girls the wrong impression that looks are all you care about. The best matches are usually when you can make someone laugh or feel interested in learning more about your personality through your bio and convos.
I'd say use recent, clear photos that show your face well enough for people to get an honest idea of what you look like. But don't obsess over tiny details or use super edited shots. Just relax and be yourself. Girls aren't all just about looks - they want to date someone fun to hang out with too. Focus on putting your best self out there. You'll find someone who likes you for you that way.
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It’s good advice for your main profile picture, and taking selfies in general. Toss in some pictures of you doing things you enjoy like hiking, fishing, or whatever hobbies you have.
I would say that it is, because I'm assuming that most people only use them for hookups anyway. Even if they don't, I'm assuming a lot of them are shallow like that.
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Hmm, I don't know man, that tip about using photos that only show off your looks seems a little shallow. Like yeah, you want your photos to be flattering and all, but what really matters is connecting with someone you click with on a deeper level.
Focusing too much on just physical appearance might attract people who are more into that than who you really are. And it could give girls the wrong impression that looks are all you care about. The best matches are usually when you can make someone laugh or feel interested in learning more about your personality through your bio and convos.
I'd say use recent, clear photos that show your face well enough for people to get an honest idea of what you look like. But don't obsess over tiny details or use super edited shots. Just relax and be yourself. Girls aren't all just about looks - they want to date someone fun to hang out with too. Focus on putting your best self out there. You'll find someone who likes you for you that way.
It’s good advice for your main profile picture, and taking selfies in general. Toss in some pictures of you doing things you enjoy like hiking, fishing, or whatever hobbies you have.
I would say that it is, because I'm assuming that most people only use them for hookups anyway. Even if they don't, I'm assuming a lot of them are shallow like that.