Why people waste too much time with relationships?

[Anonymous]

Almost all relationships are time waster and for some benefits, if you don't have money or some important feature like being so hot etc.

People waste too much time by clothing, shopping, doing too much effort for just one person. And relationships never made sense to me.

[sawno]

If you think thats what a relationship I can understand it doesn't make sense. Thats just putting up with typical girl things just to get laid.

No my relationship was very different, she was genuinely incredible and my best friend aside from my partner. We'd spend some quality time every evening, having deep conversations about topics we enjoyed to explore, watching a show or movie, gaming, sex, etc. Every day she was the highlight of my day, and I was hers.

On top of that add an incredibly deep bond and connection, having a competent partner that's working with you as a team, someone who fits you and understands you trough and trough dedicated to you as much as you are to them.

So its not "some benefits", its an incredible partnership/friendship/sexual union between two like minded people.

The part where your going wrong is that you aren't going after someone that fits you, you think you should put up with someone who doesn't fit you just for the benefits. I completely understand you don't want that since I don't want that either. But done right its not what its like at all.

[mamysandycandy]

You waste time and money :

- When you watch Movies, series or listen to songs. Don't you pay for Netflix or other apps?

- When you travel instead of working

- When you dress up to meet family and friends or go to a party

- When you dress up for work, just wear pyjamas at work lol

- You waste time when you are on GaG

- you waste time and water if you take longer shower/bathtoom time instead of maximum of only 10 min


The point is: with or without a relationship, you still waste time and money everyday.

[Little_Bumblebee]

You sound like you might be aromantic in that case.

[Veles]

And why are you wasting your time worrying about other people's choices? If you don't want a relationship, just enjoy your loneliness.

[Anonymous]

Lots of people just don't want to be alone.