What’s the point of relationships these days?

Question

No one trusts each other. No one wants to build trust. Men and women hate each other more than usual. It’s absolutely pointless!

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

I was single for 3 or 4 years because I would not date a woman who did not have traditional values, because I absolutely could not trust a woman who did not. But I eventually found a woman with traditional values and we've been together for more than a year, and it's great. Building trust is a big deal for me - it's vital to the success of a relationship, and when you have trust, it's one of the best feelings in the world.

What you need to recognize is that it wasn't men who changed everything, it was women - radical Feminists specifically. The leaders of the Feminist movement - the ones who have offices in DC and write position papers that get turned into laws and regulations and affect where funding goes and all of those things - those women are all radical Feminist Marxists whose openly-stated goal was to destroy marriage and, to the degree possible, end relationships between men and women. Let me say it again: these women said these things openly and wrote about them in articles that were targeted at beltway activists, but even though it wasn't reported on in the mainstream media, the articles, published stories, and videos exist - it's no conspiracy theory.

Western women have grown up in a world where Feminist ideals are everywhere. Your moms are largely feminists, every woman in every kind of media is a feminist, every movie and TV show depicts men as hapless idiots who need a woman (who is always smarter and more moral) to save them from themselves, etc. And don't even start me about the school system, from K through college - it's 100% feminist.

And so, it's women who have changed direction 180 degrees since 1960. That's why there's no trust anymore. So many women expect a man to give her everything while she gives him nothing that huge numbers of men have simply stopped dating. These guys would be much happier with a traditional woman and they know it, but there are just way too few of those to go around - so they're out. They'll build their own careers, enjoy their hobbies, fund their retirements, and have their circles of male friends, and they'll be fine. Less happy than they might have been, but at least they'll have peace.

Most women can't be happy alone. Most women thrive on male attention, and most women don't want to go to work 40+ hours a week for 40+ years and still have to come home and take care of her home, car, and pets. Most assume that they'll have a man to help them - hell, many feel completely entitled to that - but a whole lot of them won't, and they'll blame men for that. But it's not men who changed - it was women who changed.

A few women can see this, and are trying to get the word out, but most women aren't listening. And so they're going to be single, possibly forever. That's a shame, but that's the consequences of setting up a system where the only winning move is not to play.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately, it's all feminism. women now want to be bossy and masculine, and men are supposed to be feminine and obedient. Unfortunately, every ideology turns into an extreme and every ideology has an enemy. Unfortunately, politicians promote this ideolody and society is falling apart, but this is how people manipulate it. People don't trust each other and there is no love, only exchange of values. Unfortunately, the world is going in a very bad direction. divisions between people are intensified by politicians, it will not lead to anything good. I have nothing against women, but men have a lot to lose in a relationship because women are legally protected because men want marriage. people are leaving the faith and have no value other than money. I don't know what I pose to society but I live my own life and I'm surprised for everything I have. I understand you, I would also be afraid to enter into a relationship with greater risk than ever. Good luck, go your own way and enjoy your life, and maybe by chance you will meet someone who will help you change your opinion about relationships.

Anonymous · Answer

I agree! This is why I don't even try to date anymore unless a woman comes to me. Which I'm sure you can surmise means I basically don't date.🤣

I have no problem with asking women out. But it's such an uphill battle for a guy. Only 10% of women will be interested and since the majority of the women just like your attention and will soak it up then reject you, you know it's a losing endeavor from the get go. Even if by some miracle she agrees to date you. You have have to fight the ghosts of every guy she's ever dated. And as you can guess, at this age it's typically a lot.

I think a person just needs to make the choice to be happy. Being happy is a choice. I've accepted I'll just probably remain single. And that's ok. Because it's better to be single for the right reasons then with someone for the wrong ones. Good luck to ya! Keep your head up. Your happiness is not decided by someone else.

JacobJordan · Answer

Very much depends on the guy. Most guys actually want a good woman that they can love. Roughly the same number of women are in a similar boat. Both suffer as a result of the shitty loud whiny minority of both genders. Feminists, "boss babes", "strong and independent" for the ladies. And abusive, "nice guy", feminine men for the gentlemen.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Well only if you both choose to be this way...

Live your life the way it suits you and under your own beliefs...

Smash the feminazis and modern society's views and beliefs under your feet and in no time, your life will become easy, comfy and happy!

exitseven · Answer

I really don't know. I think the dating scene today is a horror show and everyone is hooking up but everyone is miserable. I am glad I don't have to deal with it

BarryLiverstone · Answer

People have different goals in life. In a romantic sense the goals include getting married or finding a life partner. That’s why they go through the painful process of building trust and taking risks to connect to a total stranger. It’s never easy

LaNc3L0TT · Answer

Biggest reason of trust issues and overall issues in relationship is mostly social media.

aceleon · Answer

not just pointless but straight up dangerous and harming dating nowadays is just a disease.

Anonymous · Answer

Quit making duplicate accounts. SOME people are happy. You DO YOU! If you don’t feel like being in a relationship then don’t be in one

_piotr · Answer

The point is that by creating a relationship women can exploit men.

JayBones · Answer

The only point of relationships are to use more than you give. Avoid them at all cost.

shortster · Answer

Finding someone to spend the rest of your life with and raise children.

gorydetails · Answer

There are plenty of men who will love you and treat you like a princess.

jimmy2 · Answer

Ohh honey find a older Man who will swept you off your feet

serious · Answer

There is no logical reason or point.

Billlewis · Answer

To please the female.

Anonymous · Answer

I’m guessing you’re single

dudeinohio · Answer

I don't see things like that.

Kelly6 · Answer

@peridot25 totally agree with it.

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