Ghosting by foreign guys?

[Anonymous]

I am in a foreign country and kinda lonely. I tried dating guys in this country, but they always ghosted me, usually after having sex. Some would meet me twice or thrice but still ghost me. Few would ask me to date them, but they only want to meet up at night for sex, so i just ended it anyway. I don't know what to do... Any advice?

[SueShe]

Perhaps that you got yourself a reputation with those guys you fornicated with. Your name might be circulating around.

Also, I believe that being a foreigner in a country that is not your own may lead to those men knowing that you may not stay there for long and certainly not long enough to start a long term relationship. Thus, it is easier to ghost you than to take the risk to have to sever the relationship once you leave their country.

I think that you should refrain from giving the impression that you are an easy catch and people may respect you more by not trying to look for guys, either on dating apps or in any other way.

You can find friends that are not into copulating. That should be much easier. Just join a club or find a hobby where you can meet people with the same interests.

[Asker]

Thank you.

[SueShe]

Thanks for the MHO

[Paris13]

They are Just After a Booty Call is All. Could Be any Type of Guy. Maybe go Online on a Reputable Dating Site and Try That. xxoo

[Paris13]

Tanks, Gag. xxoo

[vj0090]

Take your time.. then only make a move.. otherwise u will always end up in bed without any commitment

[boobliker]

just talk to all the guy but remember loads are gay

[Jmmmfi4]

RAISE YOUR STANDARD

[In_Trance]

Stop taking your clothes off