Its really an irritating situation for me when someone I want to talk starts ghosting suddenly. Are you able to come out of that irritating situation rapidly? If yes then what you think to come to normal stage?
Yeah ghosting irritates me for longer time
It is irritating but i come back to normal stage easily
It really hurt but there is nothing I can do about it but move on. Generally I will ignore them for a bit if they come back. If they keep texting then I'll be honest and tell them how much they hurt me. That they couldn't have ever liked me the way I like them to treat me like that. If the foot were on the other foot I would never do that to them. That it doesn't matter how much I liked them or missed them I could never allow someone to treat me so disrespectful. Then I would tell them to have a great life.
I find it very frustrating and annoying when guys ghost me. I move on though and most of the time, these same asshats will wait 2 months, 6 months or longer to contact me out of nowhere and try to get with me. At that point I don't bother to respond because I made the mistake of responding to a guy who had ghosted me, started contacting me 6 months later, and ghosted me again after he made plans to hang out with me. People who ghost suck!
I'd stop sending messages after the second one if no reply. These type of people are generally the type to run away rather than deal with issues anyway and it'd be bad for you to get involved with someone like this. If they're like this already, just imagine what they'd do if you're actually in a relationship with them. They'd disappear when they're upset and cause you heartbreaks.
The secret is.. when u get ghosted, don't keep messaging again and again, don't let them know u care whether they answer or not. And forget about it cuz u don't have time to deal with useless people. 😊 If they ever get back to messaging u treat them like they're no different than a wall
I've been ghosted and I have ghosted. We all have busy lives, at least I do. I quickly move on because I have a thousand thing to worry about than the guy who isn't interested in me.
I got ghosted to hell. It only made me more upset, and it still does. To this day i tried no contact for like 3 weeks, and my ex randomly messaged me just to remind me "don't contact me"!! This made me so much more upset, now i'm just back at square 1 and want to message her every day. ALSO Blocking me will only make me more curious and anxious to see what you're up to! I was blocked on all social media, so now i can only resort to waiting and thinking about other girls. But of course my ex is always on my mind.
That’s super annoying when people do that, I’ve had it done to me more times than I can count. I would just stop texting them and move on. clearly they aren’t going to respond or give a shit. people are heartless and don’t give a shit about others feelings have the time. Move on, you’ll find someone else who respects you and is nice. I doubt you did anything to deserve this people can be weird and just bitches. You deserve to be treated better.
If I really want to talk with somebody I say something short like, hi how you doing or hey I need to talk If the person actually care about you, s/he will respond soon or later No need to spam them if they are not interested in talking with you
It's irritating at firat, especially if they don't give you a reason or you can't think of one yourself It's just one of those things that happens, find someone better If they don't show intrest in you, don't show intrest in them
The guy I like ghosts me all the time, like he will get back to me but it takes forever - I can’t tell if he’s actually interested in me & how I deal is I pretty much just cry tbh.
Im in the same situation wth this chick I've know, id arrange a meetup (with her usually saying she'd like to see me) then disappears for a month only to say "sorry pls dont think im ignoring you" yeaah sure
It pisses me off because at that point I realise I've just lost respect for the person that I trusted and didn't want to. But once they've done that there's no second chances or going back, it's a done deal I'm afraid at that point.
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Because they've shown the immature aspect or their character and that's not something I want to invite into my life. So ultimately it's good riddance.
When they message you back it’s usually because they want something I just ignore them Back unless they’ve given me a specific reason why they didn’t reply e. g. someone died
It takes longer for me to get over ghosting because it makes me wonder if i wasn't enough or if i was too clingy ext. I think it took me so long to move on because i didn't have any closer.
I was walking nor. ally and then ploof, my toe goes bangidy bang bang as I moved past a chair, and the chair goes "whoa now fella, hold your horses. You ain't going nowhere without a good ole stumping y'all hear?" And then I stumped my toe :(
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