How do you deal with being ghosted?

[lolitaaa__]

i notice a lot of times with dating in this day and age, instead of expressing disinterest in moving, either person will just ghost the other, and sometimes they even do it to each other (guilty lol)

do you ever question yourself after you get ghosted? or do you just accept that you'll never get an answer as to why the person isn't interested in you?

[QuietJack]

You deserve better. Every woman deserves a man who is excited to contact her no matter how busy work or life gets. You deserve a man who will treasure his interactions with you and will look forward to your texts as much as you look forward to his. You deserve a man who incorporates you into his daily life with no prompting or plotting on your part. Own the fact that you are a fabulous vixen who has the ability to bring any man to his knees.

[Matti_Jr]

It is what it is. It sucks, but is it really worth wasting emotions on someone who didn't give two shits to begin with? Hang in there, you'll meet a decent person soon enough.

[Marellia]

I was ghosted a lot in high school by my crush, it sucks a lot since you don't know the reasons why is he ghosting on you, it would be much better to hear "sorry but I'm not interested in you" or something like that, than being ghosted. Later I was ghosted on dating sites few times but
I didn't take it seriously, if guy is too coward to tell you the truth, it's his fault.

[Wonderer89]

I'm actually really bad with this... friends who sort of ghost out (ones I haven't known for all that long, not my long term ones) kind of start to fade out so I just cut off all contact 🙈 Delete their number and everything
I imagine if I had to date again I'd do the same thing, as soon as there was a repeat pattern of that kind they'd be gone

[xxmamichulaxx]

I delete their number and move on. Even if I may have liked them or wanted to be something more , I refuse to double text or keep trying to talk when they ghost me , especially If I know theyre not busy. I may wonder why I'm ghosted , but I dont overthink.

[NyomiMcClinton]

I accept it and move. I have ghosted a guy before and have been ghosted. a lot of times, I am not in mood to explain my reason to a guy. It always end with him begging me to change my mind when its already made up.

[chos000]

Make joke out of it and move on. If it irritates you then I would highly suggest you discuss with your friends to point out mistake , you might've made. Don't linger around too much.

[mrsticks]

Ghosting means... ignoring?

No, I usually give no shits, but I'm a stone hearted asshole. I can totally understand why someone would want to at least know what went wrong though. Makes sense.

[mjz00]

ok everyone can have a good laugh wtf is ghosting? im imagining there has been contact and then it stops however you're not blocked by them so they can still spy on you? close? lol xx

[singlebee]

No ghosting means you are getting a lot of love and all like in a normal relationship and then the next day the person is no where to be found... That's ghosting..

Like as if they dropped from the face of the earth

[mjz00]

@singlebee well then hopefully they did... xx

[singlebee]

Lol hahaha

[Chanel1981]

I think ghosting is for cowards! I have no problem telling someone to get lost but I think it's definitely the easy way out

[ranjahnah]

i have been ghosted from a few guys which is annoying and sometimes i wonder what went wrong but after awhile its worthless to think about it and i just talk to other guys

[Nephilim000]

it sucks but I move on why waste time getting bent out of shape over it

[Marinepilot]

It hurts, I'd say try to make contact. If they don't respond within a reasonable time, move on. What choice do you have.

[MikkiM]

yeah, and that really pissed you, when you try to connect but the other cut the connection,

its like, you are worthless and they dont need you in their life

[Marinepilot]

@MikkiM This is true. However, the ocean isn't going to run out of fish.

[MikkiM]

yeah right :) maybe one day we can catch the right one :)

[Anonymous]

I normally do that if the only way I could tell the person I am no longer interested in talking with them would be by saying something hurtful if they want an explanation.

[AdityaTank]

this actually is very often seen
when a person is actually nort willing to talk and wants to go away the person does this
i can say this true because i am experiencing it currently

[Anonymous]

I wish I can give an answer but I'm the one doing the ghosting.

[blondfrog]

people who ghost others should live in haunted houses.

[WhereAmI]

Happened a couple times on me. I'm not insecure about it. Just move forward.

[BraveHeart97]

Holy shit, is this actually a thing now? And then women wonder why I have attachment issues.

[awesometjgreen]

by ghosted you mean the other person disappearing on you? it's happened to me twice I hate it

[DRAKES1]

I am also Exp this right now I find it odd at 40 that a grown women can do this to a person its very odd

[Anonymous]

ghosted is when she wears a sheet over her head and you cum on her face... right?

[Indian-African]

I call the ghostbusters.

[singlebee]

Shit is this a new thing now? Fucking hell...

[singlebee]

Ohhhh and I have been ghosted by a girl who was talking to me every day and getting close... Then just stopped one day...

And yeaa I really hurt... But later I realised she got married and she a bitch anyways.. So I just moved on

[lazermazer]

I try to ghost back

[lazermazer]

thnks for mha