but then she just like ghosted me at the start of August and I've barely seen her this month and tried texting her and literally got nothing out of her as to why?
so I'm not sure whats going on with her and how to deal with this situation , its also possible she reappears at some point and decides to be friends with me again? but not feeling that optimistic about it
Most Helpful Girl
I'd confront her and basically ask her "what do I mean to you?" because if she cares and values your friendship and you she would reply and wouldn't drop off the planet, this is all dependent on what her answer is. She may just not be the right friend for you, some people are just toxic and create unnecessary drama in your life. I'd definitely reavaluate whether she is worth your time and effort
Most Helpful Guy
If she's gone then the situation is pretty much over. Move on and be done with her, ignore her if she tries to show up again because she's probably just using you.