i've known this girl off and on for 2 years , sometimes things between us are better than other times. things started out a bit off at the start of this summer but then they got fairly good and we had some good nights out together.
but then she just like ghosted me at the start of August and I've barely seen her this month and tried texting her and literally got nothing out of her as to why?
so I'm not sure whats going on with her and how to deal with this situation , its also possible she reappears at some point and decides to be friends with me again? but not feeling that optimistic about it
Most Helpful Girl
you should ask yourself if she's worth it? and you may jump to saying yes without really thinking about it. what you should focus on is what are the chances she is just using you. it may be that she was using you to feel better about herself and not serious about dating you for some reason. the chances that she found someone else so she "no longer needs you" is likely. if she reappears I would be cautious, because the chances of this may be more likely than you think. if you are tempted to talk to her again take into consideration that if she's already done it before and got away with it then she will get the idea that she can do it whenever she wants. it's the same for cheating. I highly recommend you forget her and move on. it may be hard but keep in mind you deserve better0
Most Helpful Guy
Cut her off and move on. Don't let people play with your emotions. She's probably ganna do it again looking for attention. Give her a taste of her own medicine2