Getting ghosted?

[Anonymous]

What’s the deal with guys constantly ghosting me. I’m thinking we having a great time and have good conversations then next morning they not in my messages or completely stop messaging. Is there something that i am doing wrong? or am I just d dodging the bullet with these so called “men”.

[Gent207-2]

I think you dodged a bullet otherwise there is not much info to go on here

[Asker]

That’s the only way I’m thinking it because I know I’m great and they are too but it’s annoying that it’s constantly happening when there’s nothing being wrong at all

[Gent207-2]

Well if you wish to discuss the matter further feel free to hit me up

[Asker]

Okay thanks

[boggboss]

What tends to be the focuse with them

[Asker]

Nothing in particular, just really getting to know them.

[boggboss]

Then more likely then not they are just doing it out of being bored not looking to make friends or grow anything long term

[Asker]

I wish that could’ve been talk through and I would not mind leaving them alone but oh well lol

[boggboss]

Also where are u finding these guys?

[Asker]

Well dating apps but really just got on it to see what’s new but nothing changed, now I have deleted it was a waste of energy

[boggboss]

So more likely then not was guys looking for sexting or just hookup

[Asker]

I’ve match with this one guy that I was interested and we talked about wanting serious relationship, cuddling but nothing too sexual or we need to meetup right away. I mentioned I’ll be out of town for a week and that seems to change the whole thing.

[boggboss]

Why do u think it was u out of town that made the difference

[Asker]

That’s the only thing I can come up with I swear right after I told him I won’t be available for that week but we can still try for talking on the phone or video chat until I come back things seem to change and distance from before or maybe he has a girl already I have no idea haha

[boggboss]

Could be that or him finding another girl

[Asker]

Yeah so oh well but my point is he could’ve just let me know that he doesn’t want to talk any more then disappearing I just think that so unattractive.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Try being in a man's shoes on the receiving end, lol sometimes GAG users, dating app users, can be all the same with bad etiquette lol

[Asker]

Well if a man is not interested in someone for any reasons then they should be a man and say that they do not want to pursue of taking things further instead of disappearing… same can go for ladies as well too.

[itsclearlynicholas]

The last 8 words are where it at 👌🏻

[Asker]

So you’ve been ghosted by ladies?

[itsclearlynicholas]

And more. And even stood up on a date. Ghosted on dating apps and even GAG for even platonic mundane chats and even those initiated supposedly by pink users lol. Lol. Ah well. Lot of fakes, lot of agendas out there, and more. Lol. I tried not to go through my 20s and even now my 30s carrying any 🛄 baggage. I really have not a problem with women or men. I find all people can either be kind or unkind.

[itsclearlynicholas]

Have a nice day lady

[Asker]

Well I do advice not to look for relationships through this app. Yes there a lot of fakes and not good people out in the world just have to be careful and I guess wait it out until you find the one for you.

[Anonymous]

I ghosted this one girl cause I looked at her social media and she was always bashing men.

Some guys will ghost if he was only interested in sex and she wasn't giving it to him.

[Zayeem]

That's rare for a girl. i see the opposite all time.