We were sleeping together and said there’s feels there now I’m getting ghosted?

[Anonymous]

For the record when we started sleeping together I made it abundantly clear I wasn’t interested in anything serious. We’ve been sleeping together for 3 months. 2 weeks go he admitted to me he’s starting to catch some feels and asked my opinion. I said I’m interested to see where this goes as I have caught some feels as well.
Nothing changed and now I can tell I’m starting to get ghosted. Like why? What’s the point in saying you have feelings and ruin our naughty fun to then ghost me? Anyone else experienced this from a guy?

[ChicoFromThe305]

He doesn't want the feelings, it's a friends with benefits from the sounds of it and he's avoiding the feelings, hense the distance

[Asker]

I didn’t want the feelings. He was the one who said it first so I don’t get why say? He should’ve just ghosted me before saying anything and ruining our thing. Thank you for your opinion I appreciate it.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Np and he's maturely telling you before he ghosts you so you know why is what it seems like

[laly520]

I don't do that

as for the guy ig he didn't know what he wanted n sex got him confused

[war_daddy]

sounds like he doesn't want to catch feelings for a 30 something woman

[Asker]

Yeah he doesn’t have much going for him being nearly 50 so being a 30 something woman is no issue considering I’m only 31

[war_daddy]

he could still date an 18 year old if he really wanted