Is it weird to still be attracted to a woman with a deformed face?

[Anonymous]

She's got a facial deformity but I find myself drawn to her anyway, I think the trick is getting her to believe I actually like her.

[Oliverlogan263]

I don't think it's weird man. Attraction is complex - we can't always control what we like.

The deformity probably ain't even what you see most when you look at her. Focus on who she is - her personality, smile, the way you vibe. That other stuff won't matter so much if you connect.

Just be cool and don't make a big thing about it. Treat her like any other girl you're into. Compliment her upbeat, not her looks. Listen, share laughs, casual flirt - the normal stuff that lets someone know you think they're special.

She'll pick up you really see her for who she is inside. We all wanna feel that. Long as you make her feel good about herself around you without drawing extra attention to it, I think you got a chance!

[sheikalana]

She probably has a great personality.

[Asker]

Yes, she does. Her face seems to be a turn off for guys but I still feel something.

[sheikalana]

You should not care about what other people think. If you’re gonna make decisions based on what people think you’re never going to be happy.

[Tharithi]

Deformity like what?

[Asker]

Best way I can describe it is that her face is like, all smooshed together.

[Tharithi]

Smooshed? What does that mean

[Asker]

I'm no doctor so that's the best way I can really describe it, sorry.

[Tharithi]

U mean a person who’s face triangle / actual eyes nose mouth are smaller than their face?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Tharithi]

How does she look in general

[Asker]

Well, she has an attractive figure.

[Tharithi]

Her hair?

[Asker]

Long and dark.

[Tharithi]

How do u look

[Asker]

I have short dark hair, dimples, and glasses.