As a socially awkward homebody guy who doesn't drink, smoke or do drugs, what's the best way to meet girls and get a girlfriend?

[hornyashell2024]

I'm very shy and haven't had much dating experience

[fantasticass]

I suggest you sign up to be a volunteer at something you enjoy. It could be at an animal rescue, or your local hospital. Police departments also have volunteer positions, so the opportunity is endless.

[hornyashell2024]

I'll consider looking into that!

[Anonymous]

Go to a bookstore or try your local gym. Or library. Just somewhere where you can meet a girl that would be nice and at your speed.

[Opinion Owner]

I would have suggested a dating app but I find those to be not that great and a lot of times you end up finding crazy people.

[hornyashell2024]

Yeah, I've tried multiple dating sites/apps, but none of them worked out

[hornyashell2024]

I've thought about finding a new hobby spot to go to, maybe that could work!

[Opinion Owner]

Yes definitely try that! That may work!

[Gent207-2]

Try the whisper app

An anonymous posting app

Post corny love letters and you're guaranteed to get attention.

Alternatively post about your hobbies and interests and what you are looking for

Good luxk

[hornyashell2024]

I haven't tried that one yet, I might give it a try!

[AviatorTom]

Try an online dating app, where you honestly describe yourself and the kind of person you're looking for.

You are not alone. There are other shy mostly-homebody people out there.

[hornyashell2024]

I've tried several and none of them worked out :( I've rewrote my profile on them multiple times in the idea that maybe I wasn't putting myself out there enough or too much, but even then I didn't see any success.

[purplepoppy]

Not calling yourself hornyashell would be a good start. Lots of people don't drink or smoke and most people don't do drugs. Trust me those things aren't selling points.

[hornyashell2024]

You know what... that's fair lol I just picked the first thing that came to mind when I picked a username. Admittedly wasn't thinking with the right head on that one xD. As for the drinking/smoking/drugs part, it seems like everyone smokes weed and/or drinks around me. I have no desire to do either of those things, so it's like swimming in a pool as an outsider.

[OddBeMe]

Ehh just kill your self.

Jk, but serisously just try to live once.

[Billlewis]

Advertise in your local personals.