How does a 20-year-old man with average looks and poor social skills find a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Yes, that's me. I have never had a girlfriend. I'm not good looking and I'm very socially awkward, I can't flirt. (don't suggest online dating, I've tried many times but it doesn't work)

[PeachyPie93]

https://www.betterup.com/blog/how-to-improve-social-skills
Work on getting better at socializing and putting yourself out of your comfort zone. You only learn to socialize by talking and going around others. Get a good hair cut and dress nice. Things like this should help a bit. If you have anxiety that holds you back from socializing go talk to someone to get that fixed because believe me it will change your life and how you feel about yourself!

[katiesmuff]

Best if he picks up some social skills and begins to use them.

[Asker]

Then it's impossible for me

[ohsheeT]

Quit looking and just be real. You don't need to flirt since you don't know how just be yourself be real. Be kind, be happy and smile. Don't put yourself down, be positive always.
Don't be. Listen more than you speak

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Dating apps it makes it easier I'm very shy in person so dating apps helped me

[Asker]

You're a woman, I'm a man
It's 100 times easier for you to find a match online than me

[EmmaMary]

I suggest you give and join a Monastery and become a Monk.

[EmmaMary]

*up*

[Anonymous]

well a mans social skills impact his ability to get a woman more than the other way around

[Anonymous]

He doesn't that's by design

[chocolatetwopointo]

u dont, go work

[Asker]

I'm already at work

[chocolatetwopointo]

then keep working, it’ll keep u busy

[Asker]

No, even when I'm working I can't stop thinking about how inadequate I am as a romantic partner.

[chocolatetwopointo]

thats sad. get a life.

[chocolatetwopointo]

work more.

[jahaims]

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