When almost every girl you meet is not interested in getting into a relationship, the common denominator here is you. Why do you chase after women who are clearly not interested in pursuing a romantic relationship with you? More than 90% of the world’s population is heterosexual, so no, it’s not that “many people are becoming LGBTQ”. Your sexuality has NOTHING to do with your inability to find someone who is compatible with you.
Instead of putting on a “nice guy” front to get laid, start being authentic. And by authentic, I don’t mean an incel or a fuckboy. Go on dates with women, and don’t expect sex. Be a good listener and try to have lively conversations. Focus more on getting to know someone for who they are and connect with people. Be genuinely good and be upfront about your intentions from the start. Do you have confidence? Are you pessimistic? I have zero interest in guys who are always in their own negative bubble. Realism is different.
You’ve mentioned that you’re a “shy” guy and that you’re introverted. Introversion is not a valid excuse to “not ask someone out”. That’s just nuts. The fault here is solely yours. If you want more dates, put yourself out on the dating scene. When you put in zero effort, expect no results. You reap what you sow.
Humans are social creatures. Deep down, EVERYONE craves for love. You just have to find that someone who is interested in sharing their love with you.
80 % of people are straight though so there's not that many gay people
Statistically, there are more heterosexual people than LGBTQ+, so you are looking at it the wrong way. Dont worry about that and try to focus on yourself. Yes it is hard to find love nowadays, especially because of social media. Many women fill their attention needs through social media, and that makes them vain and narcisistic. I would advice working out, get in shape, the best shape you can, try to always look nice and stop thinking about it. Talk to people without expecting something back, just talk. Eventually, you will talk to someone you like and find attractive at the same time.
A lot of women are saying it’s easy, and I’d just like to remind them that they do not have the male perspective.
and for a young man, it can be difficult because so many people are going gay or only interested in hookups. Just remember though that every gay man is one less competitor and every fuckboy is one more reason a woman will value a good man
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s many straight people out there who do not struggle to get into a relationship
Around 90% of the population are straight. YOU are the problem.
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