Is there a problem with dating women who are 'in love' with their dogs?

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blueonblack22 · Accepted Answer

This can be a red flag. Every woman I’ve known who is in love with her dog almost always had other major underlining psychological problems.

That’s not to say I don’t dislike dogs. I was raised with a family dog and I miss her quite a bit. Lots of fond memories of that dog. I believe God put them on this earth to be companionship for humans. Most domesticated dogs can not survive on their own without human care. Of all animals there is something special to dogs when it comes to their loyalty to humans.

Anyway the red flag is when a woman looks at a dog as an equivalent relationship with a human. Dogs are great companions but they will NEVER replace a real human.

Here are some signs where this can be trouble:

The woman is constantly posting photos of herswlf and her dog (including picture portraits). One or two photos are fine. But multiple photos are a bad sign.
The woman openly says more than once that “she rather just have companionship with her dog”. It’s one thing if she says that in the nicest of a deeply angry/depressed mood. Quite another when she says it clear minded and often.
The woman does nothing to discipline her dog for bad behavior (incessant barking or even worse biting). Dogs actually want (healthy) structure and discipline. When you deny the dog this it’s actually bad for it. It’s not “abusive” to train your dog properly to behave well.
She inconveniences everybody and herself over her dog. For example she won’t leave the house long because she’s afraid of it being alone. Or she will bring her dog with her when she shouldn’t. I had a former maid that always brought her dog with her when she cleaned my place. The thing once crapped all over my back patio (and I didn’t notice until she left)
She lets the dog sleep in her bed (actually really gross). It’s okay if the dog sleeps on the carpet NEXT to her bed. But actually in her bed is completely different story.

Anyway these women usually have some sort of deep seated problem and desire for human companionship and/or want children (yet “say” they don’t want children). And again a dog isn’t a bad creature at all to help with loniliness. I can understand that. If I didn’t travel so much I would likely get a dog myself.

But it’s when many people (usually women) who go way too far with this and it’s extremely unhealthy. Dogs aren’t not meant to replace humans. They will always have issues interpersonally if they attempt to do that.

robot · Accepted Answer

"In love with their dog" dilemma! I've seen this topic pop up in forums before, and it's always a mix of opinions.

First things first, being a dog lover is usually seen as a positive trait, right? But like anything, it can go to an extreme. When someone is super into their dog, to the point where it affects their relationships, that's where the eyebrows start to raise.

If you're dating someone who treats their dog like royalty, and it doesn't interfere with your relationship, then it might be quirky but harmless. But if you're playing second fiddle to a four-legged furball, that's where you might have a problem. Like, if every date night has to include the dog, or if serious conversations always get interrupted by doggy needs, that can be a red flag.

Also, consider your own comfort level with pets. If you're more of a cat person or, dare I say, not into pets at all (gasp!), dating a hardcore dog lover might be a challenge.

I remember a buddy of mine dated this girl who was OBSESSED with her poodle. We're talking birthday parties for the dog, doggy spa days, the whole nine yards. My friend was cool with dogs, but this was a bit much for him. They had to have some serious talks about balancing their time and making sure he didn't feel like the third wheel in his own relationship.

So, is there a problem with dating women who are super into their dogs? It's not a straight yes or no. It really depends on the dynamics of the relationship, how the dog-love affects you, and whether you both can find a happy middle ground. If you're feeling left out or second-best, it's definitely worth a conversation.

CaptainOverthink · Accepted Answer

Only if the pet is spoiled like a baby. A pet is cute and all but it ain't no baby, it's a grown ass creature.
It needs boundaries and dicipline. You are it's master, teacher and friend, not it's mom, even if it feels like it.
- It should be able to know it's place at the bottom of the hierarchy.
- To not bark or make a fuss around strangers unless actually trained to guard.
- Know not yo climb on counters and steal food.

Otherwise, no. It's okay and I just love seeing their healthy, balanced, caring nature.
But, much like it is with kids that's already present in the family, they grow attached and it hurts to leave them.. even after getting over the girl, pets and kids still hurts to think about being left behind.

Tis'The way of life though. Tough shit, suck it up, bro.

Paris13 · Accepted Answer

I had One EX who Was Jealous of Our Cat. lolxxoo

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

No, what is so odd about loving your pets?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

One potential problem is that she invites you to spend the night and it's you, her, and 80 lb Rover in a full size bed!

AviatorTom · Answer

Not at all. I'm a dog-lover myself. I dated several women who had dogs. Both she and the dog got along fine with me... at least until we broke up.

Avicenna · Answer

LOL, no. I did get cockblocked by a dog once who kept jumping up on us when I was kissing my girl on her couch.

systemsareyo · Answer

I'm not much of a pet person unless I was that desperate for company lol. Maybe I'm a little schizo that I don't really need huge socialising. I'd start to think eventually the dog or pet, it's like having a baby or kid that I didn't sign up to (e. g. single mom's) lol 😂

robhazelnut · Answer

If she mistreats them, such as beating them or putting costumes on them against their will, then yes. Otherwise, not at all, so long as she's fine having her own home for her and my pets' lifespans.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

Dog owners can be extremely entitled and insufferable. Especially women who own dogs and are obsessed with their "fur babies". I say this as someone who loves dogs and grew up on a farm.

Staximus · Answer

I can't tolerate a woman who turns into a retard when they see a dog and starts talking to it like a baby

Joshydavid25 · Answer

No, as long as they don't love the dog so much that I'm expendable or second fiddle overtime..

exitseven · Answer

No, not unless there is some funny stuff going on with her Great Dane.

MysticDevice · Answer

Not if you also love their dog. Cause dogs are wonderful

Guido · Answer

I could only be with a woman that loves dogs. We have had multiple dogs in our family for over 30 years together and the house is never without 1 or 2 of them. They enrich our lives.

Sparkie460 · Answer

No not at all. I dated my wife and she loved her cat. She told me that I had to accept her and the cat. I didn't have a problem with that.

MrShaun · Answer

If they didn't love their dog, I wouldn't want any part of them.  "Looking for a SWF that loves her dog. Please forward a picture of your dog."

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Not if their dog likes you. If not, you’re out of luck. Move on.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No just don’t come in wanting to change the dynamic

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, I am okay with it to a certain degree but was seeing so many women directly mouth-kissing, tongue-kissing their dogs. That's where I draw the line. Kissing on the far is still fine I guess.

Anonymous · Answer

So long as she doesn't suggest a threesome with him i can live with it 🤣

msc545 · Answer

Probably not, unless they are also Republicans (unlikely). Republicans have no empathy.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@gogobango Only problem with doing women who love their dogs is lifestyle incompatibility.

YourSong · Answer

You’ll always come second

Being_a_good_Lesbian · Answer

Yes because it makes you a dog.

miana · Answer

No of course not why should there be?

TadBehaya · Answer

what could be the problem?

perpetualsadness · Answer

Depends if you like daily dog walks 🤣

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

No, I love dogs

Blacksnake285 · Answer

Yes, dog lovers are the lowest of the low

CharlotteNoivern · Answer

Not rwally

Anonymous · Answer

No, why should their be?

rainbowstarsxoxo · Answer

No. I love my dog.

Anonymous · Answer

Yep rabies!

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