Do women who consider dating to marry overlook physical attraction in a guy?

[Anonymous]

I'm quite handsome, I am fit, intelligent, but I'm not that masculine. I have some 'feminine hobbies' and I am a bit shy. I'm wondering whether my atitudine could be a turn off for such a woman. In terms of values, we would be a good match.

[Anonymous]

What are those feminine hobbies, if you don't mind saying?

And shy, with girls or overall? And is it bad that you mess things up or freeze and can't step forward?

Not masculine.. as in?

Anyhow, if you are confident, strong and firm in your beliefs and perceptions, and utilize your masculine potenials, then you're just gifted to be fit, and handsome. Where other traits define you as a man.

As for overlooking physical apperance then they definitely are not look-oriented like I and you are.

Two things ladies need:
1- Sense of security.
2- Emotional care & bonding.

You'd see hot pretty women.. with quite ugly unattractive guys. Why.. because she prioritizes things you don't.
Doesn't mean she doesn't care, but beauty measurements in her eyes differs than yours, where some beauty can cover for the other ugliness or lack.

Plus, just taking care of yourself and try to be pretty is being pretty. Those who look 100% perfect are empty from inside.
You can try to look perfect the most possible, natural with its defects is the perfect.

All the best, mate.

[Asker]

Feminine hobbies such as poetry and plants. I would say not shy overall, despite being introverted. I would say not shy with girls, only with the girls I am very attracted to. Girls I am not particularly attracted to in terms of personality, despite them being physically attractive, think I am brave and confident. When I'm about to freeze, I tell myself that I must act, so I still approach those girls I'm very attracted to. They can tell I am hesitant and shy, because my ex girlfriends told me they had noticed my hesitant and 'neurotic' body language. Despite my hesitance, I am very confident in my beliefs and values. I know people who are insecure even among their friends, but with people I am comfortable with, I am very confident.

[Opinion Owner]

No worries then.
I think most of us are like that you mention :)

Act on that feedback your exes provided. Where probably just saying. I mean who doesn't get nervours talking to someone they like 😄. It is good you asked and got feedback already, that shows a great side of you. Just go ahead, you're on the track.

[LazerBean]

Generally no, but I've definitely seen some women where I wondered if they did. As for hobbies, I think most women don't really care either way.

[RedInnocent68]

No, but they aren’t as judgy as guys, especially about hobbies.