Would u date someone who is 8 years younger than you?

[Anonymous]

would u guys date a girl, that is 8 years younger than u? like for example u are 28 and she is 20? or u don’t even think about her when u know she is 8 years younger?

[jennifer_bloom]

When I was 18 a 26 year old guy would lead me on and act interested and I felt like a 12 year old dating a 50 year old cause due to overly controlling parents and abusive ones, I was very very very immature for my age when I was 18 and had the maturity of a young teenager. And he was very mature cause he had grown up with the very religious parents and socialized with the very elite among religious people. It was a disaster. When he rejected me after learning about my issues, I could not cope and was miserable for a full 8 months. Later, I discarded him like he was a mosquito and a total stranger to me. God fixed my heart.

[EnglishArtsteacher]

He was a vampire.

[Maddie248]

Well I'm dating a guy 3 years older than me. When I'm 20 I'm sure I'd date a 28 year old too. I don't see age as a problem as long as you're good together

[EnglishArtsteacher]

Also, I really hope you wouldn't date someone eight years younger than you.

[Maddie248]

@EnglishArtsteacher well that would be pretty weird

[systemsareyo]

I'm 29 years old and I'd happily date a suitable attractive woman who I got along with who was 20-29 years old. I wouldn't want to date a woman who's older than me. I'll be 30 this year lol, so I'm not a guy chasing older women. Anyways. That said, strangely I've just never been lucky I guess with dating, not to say some women have flirted with me in real life and either I've not been attracted to them or, let's be real here, im likely still single at 29 because: it's all about me, me, me and my ego my ego my ego. There is not enough room for two here with my ego 😂👀💯

[HawkPerception]

I've dated someone 10 years younger (very shortly) when I was was 28. Age isn't really a huge factor for me. I would date a 45 year old woman if I found her attractive and has my ideal personality

[HawkPerception]

The older you get, the less age matters. If you want a SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE age gap, use the half your age plus 7 rule. Always start with the older person in the equation. So that means, if he's 28, then divide by 2 is 14. 14 + 7 is 21. So that would be a SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE age range for him. Google "Half your age plus seven rule"

[Asker]

He is actually almost 28 😅.
I don’t think he cares if it is socially acceptable age gap, but some people for example if they knew that the other person is younger, they wouldn’t even take him seriously

[HawkPerception]

You are past 18 years old. It's your choice at this point. If you're attracted to him and he's attracted to you, I see no issue. The age of consent in Brazil is 14 years old. People here would say that's disgusting but it's a matter of perspective. Too many sheep in the world. As long as there's mutual attraction and consent, you're good to go.

[Asker]

Yeah you are right. Lets just hope he also thinks about me in that way

[HawkPerception]

Wish ya luck! 😁 and don't get down if he doesn't. Plenty of fish in the sea

[EnglishArtsteacher]

Yes, I would.

Let me guess... you're 20 years old, and you're thinking about dating a 28 year old man?

[Asker]

well yeah, I have a crush on him and I would to know if he (as a man) would consider dating someone who is 8 years younger than him, based on different opinions 😅

[EnglishArtsteacher]

Right, I figured as such.

Good luck lol.

[RebelinSteel]

If you are on a night out, on holiday etc, you are all going to be in same place and if there is mutual attraction it will happen, then you end up dating. Alternatively you may both work in same place and end up dating.

[DJB72]

If I was single again at my age I'd date a girl up to 17/18 years younger than me. I guess an age gap that big isn't so much of a deal over 50

[linka_pat307]

I have never thought of being in a relationship where my partner is younger than me or the same age , I mean am kinda kiddish and I need someone mature

[Bendi21]

I'm 21 yo. I'd prolly date a 29 but it really really really depends

[BoopBoopBeep]

Most of my exes are 10 years younger, give or take.

[Crankor]

Eh... probably not. I would have to already of known her for a while to know the type of person she is. Otherwise i don't think I could take it seriously

[EnglishArtsteacher]

You really couldn't date a 33 year old?

[Crankor]

I'd be hesitant. If I did I would just go into it as a casual thing until it became obvious she had her shit together and isn't moving at a different pace than me

[Nik1hil]

Yes!.. If she can keep up with me, and match my wits!.. and we vibe good!

[NathanDavis]

I could date a 25 year old...

would have to be quite the special one, though...

[jarkitor20]

I would depending on how her stance in life is

[Staximus]

Yeah, 8 years younger than me is 38 which is no big deal

[Tomisworthless]

I’m 29 lowest I’d go would be 22 I would sleep with a girl 19-21 but only date 22-35

[robhazelnut]

At 36, 28 is just fine. At 28, 20 would be a tad too young.

[Anonymous]

I would never date a younger. Most men are like babies till they reach 30, if you are lucky.

[Tomisworthless]

Well eventually you’d want a younger man who can perform well in bed for you and live a long life with you than someone who dies years or decades before you

[Tharithi]

Can never date a guy that old. He will be in his mid 30 when I want to settle and marry

[EnglishArtsteacher]

You can marry, and settle down at any age as an adult.

[Tharithi]

@EnglishArtsteacher exactly and he’s gonna be way old when I settle

[EnglishArtsteacher]

Fair point.

[Anonymous]

My current boyfriend is 15 years younger, so I suppose I would. haha

[chrissykerdock]

i would date anyone long as he had a pulse

[elaphe]

I have dated a woman who was eight years younger than me, so yes.

[Bella2423]

It depends on his personality and shape

[KittygosMeoWW]

No I usually only date older men

[Tomisworthless]

This wouldn’t work I’m only 29 🤔

[KittygosMeoWW]

@Tomisworthless 👍🏼

[Tomisworthless]

What’s that square?

[KittygosMeoWW]

@Tomisworthless I don't know I guess the skin tone

[Tomisworthless]

Yeah, I guess so 🤔🙄