How often do you see your friends with benefits?

[the_man57]

First time having a friends with benefits and wondering how often I should see her. We hung out a couple days ago and am looking to see her again soon. Is like once a week too much? How long should I wait before asking her to hang out?

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I'd say bro:

I'd say once a week is usually cool with friends with benefits setups. Don't wanna seem too clingy, but still wanna keep things consistent.

As for when to hit her up again, wait like 3-4 days. Long enough that you're not all up in her DMs everyday, but soon enough she knows you're still interested.

Gauge her response this time too. If she's down to kick it again quick then bet, go for it. But if seems busy or unenthused maybe give her another couple days next time.

Key things are keep it casual, respect her space, have fun. Don't catch feelings or make it weird. Once a week lets you blow off steam without overstaying your welcome, know what I mean?

And stay safe too bro! Make sure protection's wrapped up right if smashing. Don't need no messy drama from a friends with benefits.

Just roll with it, see how it goes. Don't pressure her or nothing. With a schedule like that, hopefully this can be a chill situation for both of you guys.

[TaureanBull81]

My last friends with benefits was a divorced mother and had shared custody of her kids so we'd meet up for some nookie once a fortnight.

[mandyfire98]

Back when I had mine, I would see them honestly almost every night. I have a high sex drive tho so it's different for everyone.

[justabuddy]

Lucky dude lol.

[petitedollbabee]

Back when I had one, I would see them maybe once a fortnight.