If he wants his "benefits" on a daily basis, then there is nothing weird about it. He is just having needs to be taken care of.
If, on the other hand, he is acting strange just as he seems to be doing by telling you that he likes you, then you should distance yourself because it seems that there he wants to ask for different benefits. Those are the emotional ones and since you made it clear that you are not interested, it is best to sever this friendly relation.
People reveal their true identity when intoxicated and he just did that by telling you he liked you. If the feelings are not reciprocated, then leave as quickly as you can before it is too late to do so.
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No, distancing yourself is not addressing the issue. You should just confront/talk to him and ask. It might just be as simple as he has has high sex drive and wants lots of sex (most guys would love it daily if possible). But it's also possible he'd like more with you, but if that's the case, you need to ask and find that out. Communication is so important, especially in with a friends with benefits. You need to make sure you're both on the same page, and stay there. If something changes for one of you, then you have to talk about it.
yes, usually friends with benefits only want to see you at night. maybe he wants to be a couple with you, so if you want that then you are probably fine to keep doing whatever.
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Yes, either they have a lot of semen backed up that they need to deposit into you or they caught feelings. either way its not for us. Move on quickly
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