It is an awkward position for him to put you in all because he wants a change of scenery. You have to be the one to hold out and say no... You're the one that'll look bad in the end. Either that, or sneak him in and make sure no one sees him. He's not doing it because he likes you, he just is tired of having sex at his house. I've had this before, so he careful! Don't read too much into it.
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I wouldn't do it unless and until he is ready for a relationship. You should tell that to him. I personally think it's out of line to put you in that position to not even be able to tell your family he's your boyfriend. Almost like he's trying to see how much power he has over you.
Just explain to him it would be very awkward as you're not a boyfriend, you don't want your family making bad assumptions about the way you choose to live your life. Sounds weird to me like he wants the commitment from you but doesn't want to make it.
It is weird for him to want to be so into your life that he wants to meet your family. I don't think you should. It's a very awkward situation. What are you going to tell your family? You can't tell them you're dating because you're not.
Because if you're on good terms with the family, you've got a one-up on the competition.
He knows perfectly well that you can't drag some guy home and go "Oh, that guy? He just someone I'm fucking for fun."
He wants you - you can bet your ass.
In his head, you're pretty much already BF/GF, so you may wanna sort that shit out.
you're going to have to drop him. He obviously thinks you need his benefits more than he needs yours. Call hid bluff and watch him fold.
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he wants your family to know that his hitting it lmao
Yeah I think that is weird. I would remind him that he isn't in a position to be in a proper relationship and that meeting parents is a relationship thing and that be the end of it. Put your foot down.
he wants to be your only friend with benefits, eventually buy you a ring to show his ownership of said benefits and then sign a benefits paper in front of witnesses wearing fancy clothes so that he'll have your beneficial friendship forever
he's probably just trying to find a place e that new and interesting and shiny to him instead of his place that he considers dull... just stand your ground and be like no if you want this so bad get us a hotel
He wants to have a serious relationship with you. He thought you were a bang-n-go girl (no offense), but after a while he thought about it and he wants to get serious.
sounds like he is trying to stake his claim in case he wants you later
It doesn't matter why he wants it, just don't let it happen. It's up to you to keep your shit straight, not him.
I wouldn't allow him to meet them. Put your foot down
He is scared and trying to see if he meets the family he will want to take the next step. Maybe it will help.
What does his plan? He wanna "hi guys i am just your daughter's fcker" really?
no I don't think he wants to be ur boyfriend maybe he just needs to get out of his house and doesn't want to get caught so by meeting ur parents he's down with that
"He said that he's not in the position to be in a relationship right now (cliche answer)"
it amazes me everytime how easy girls are , but then again that never happens to me.He is hoping that your family would see him as your boyfriend. And you will not be able to take another guy to meet family, essentially making you exclusive with him. If it is so, then dick move.
i dont really understand the whole friends with benefits thing. i used to have one night stand and have a lovely girlfriend now. i feel like repeating mating rituals like sex and being together in general means some kind of relationship.
Tell him that it's very awkward for you to introduce your friends with benefits to your family.
Maybe see if there's a hereditary deficiency like a crazy gene. lol
Abort!! Abort!! Get another friends with benefits lol
curious how your family is
introducing himself to maybe later be you boyfriend
just for funmaybe he is starting to feel something for you and its a subtle way of saying that he wants to be more than a friends with benefits
Maybe he's interested in the thought of a relationship and wants to see how your family is.
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