Why does it seem like every guy I meet, they just want to have sex with me?

[Anonymous]

So, I am only 28 years old, and living in North Carolina, I really can't consider anybody my friend but I chill in the socialize with the few. A lot of times, I am around my family or at work. I would like to get out a bit more, but I also like to social. When I am not around my family or at home I am at work, dealing with BS and crazy employees or customers. But, I do have more of a relationship with the people I work with because I see them every so often if not every damn day lol. When it comes to (LOVE) I'm not necessarily looking for it, but I am also tired of these damn guys in these got damn casual relationships. I don't go hooking up or making out with everybody I have an encounter with. But it seems like the guys, that I do find attractive and possibility potentially see myself dating, they never stick around or either disappear for a bit. Then, you have the one's, they will stick around, but most of them just wants sex or maybe not find me that attractive or interesting. Yes I know my life sucks and I don't have much going on right now. But, am I just an ass to these guys, the majority of these men also have been people I met offline. And one has been a person I went to school with. Then, I had my long 5 years friends with benefits for awhile. And his black ass, ain't hitting it like he use to, but he is a hole hoe for everyone smh. But anyways, I'm just trying to figure out will I ever find love before I reach 30, and why are all or most of these guy's a bunch of pigs and Horn dogs, an wanna FUCK. Am I not good enough to be in a relationship with someone or am I really just that boring and unattractive to them?

[Anonymous]

Part of the reason many girls can't find guys who will commit to a real relationship, is because so many girls have sex with guys, they feel no need to settle down. They get most of what they want, without the responsibilities of a real, serious relationship. There are guys who actually want a relationship, but most of them are already in one. The guys who are single and want a relationship are around, but they don't grow on trees. And you don't find them in bars or by hooking up with guys.

[Asker]

Thank You! I like your answer that made my night go a little bit better. I no that this is just a phase that I am going through. But, I know how I feel. And also, I wish I did meet and knew more positive females or just girls in general.

[Opinion Owner]

Asker: One of the great things in life, are friendships. Girl's seem to have better abilities in this area, with same sex friendships, than do guys. It does take time to gain a real friendship, they are very worth the time and effort.

[Asker]

oh absolutely I'm just going to stay off these apps for a while and just stay to myself and do what God put me on this Earth to do. Live, learn, and build my Empire.

[Opinion Owner]

asker: That sounds like a good plan, but there is nothing wrong with keeping a watch out for the right guy.

[Nahid1707]

So, in conclusion you’re tired of the thirsty desperate men you seem to meet.
Many ladies can relate with you.

Thank you next 💁‍♀️

[Asker]

Right. I'm sure, it's good guys out there some where. But damn.. Is pussy all in a guys head lol smh

[Nahid1707]

Yeah, you deserve to be happy

[Asker]

😉😎

[Nahid1707]

😊💜

[Anonymous]

There's no benefit to a guy being in a relationship nowadays. Most women sleep around with anyone and guys have caught on.

[Naughtyboy71]

Seems they just want to fuck you , suck their cock
maybe eat some pussy