Is it just a friends with benefits or something more?

[Anonymous]

I have a friends with benefits I believe but I feel it could be developing into more than that. We sometimes have pdas in public (like feeding me food or hugging me randomly). We go out to do stuff together like dinner , dance class , etc. when we need to meet each other we make plans at least a week ahead of time and would always do real things before anything sexual. He pays for food all the time and asks me ton of questions about how I feel and what’s my life goal etc. We plan sleepovers and exchange texts about what we are doing when we are apart.

For the week I didn’t have a car he would Uber to see me and bring me food.

does it look like a typical friends with benefits situation? Or should I be careful if one party catch feelings? Thanks.

[Anonymous]

It's time for a talk with him and find out. Make sure you're both still on the same page. Communication is extremely important in any "relationship", but especially this situation and it's often lacking big time. The fact that you are even questioning this, suggest to me that this is already (at least starting) to become more for you, so you MUST talk with him now about it. Find out how he feels and what he thinks. Don't just leave it. My ex fwbs, ANYONE would've said we were more like boyfriend and girlfriend, so naturally I started to develop feelings for her, and naturally assumed she was as well. How very wrong I was. Not only did she end it immediately, but ghosted me as well. Apparently I wasn't even a "friend" or someone she had basic respect for. So my point is, some people are VERY good actors/actresses, and you never really know. Yes it's a risk that it could end this arrangement if he doesn't feel the same, but trust me, it will be WAY better for you to find this out NOW, not later. If that's the case.

[Mofunfour20]

He obviously views you as his girlfriend if he is buying and delivering your food. Its not just friends with benefits because he is showing signs of commitment and consideration for your feelings that arnt warranted. Outside of sex, if you dont do anything for him, do you think he'll expect you to give him the whole girlfriend experience?

[Klaulauxx]

I have no experience with friends with benefits's and that, but it definitely seems like more than FWBs. Unless if he's a super super nice guy. If you don't want it to develop into anything more, then you should draw a line soon, in a way that it's not like you're distancing yourself from him. Otherwise, it could be possible that someone either falls or gets confused between FWBs and girlfriend/boyfriend.
Or just be direct and ask him why he does all that. Or tell him he doesn't have to. Cos if he's doing all this and if he acc started falling for you and you just follow along (letting him pay, eating what he feeds you etc), he may think ur into him too. Maybe he's a little worried about popping the question.
So, either draw the line or ask him.

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

That sounds like he is pouring into you.. pursuing you. friends with benefits generally stays in the bedroom.

[Canceled]

Commitment is a trap fellas. Statistically speaking, the longer the relationship goes the less she, not he, wants sex.

[Ukrainianbuddafly]

That's only when y'all start slacking off and don't act the same anymore. For me the opposite is true.

[Mofunfour20]

FACT$$$ save your money guys