Why would a guy confess his feelings to a female friend, only to begin dating another girl a few days later?

[Anonymous]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

If you aren’t interested in him, it’s better this way, cause having a friend that has feelings for you can affect your future relationship in a bad way.

I had to block my friend when I got into a relationship, because he wouldn’t stop trying to make me change my mind. I didn’t change my mind and I didn’t want my then-boyfriend to feel bad for me to be friends with people who threatened our relationship.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LaFemmeFatale_1. Exactly right.

[DizzyDesii]

I've done similar before. I just like letting people know that i “used to” like them before i move on 🤣

[DizzyDesii]

And then they always go “wait why dont you like me anymore”. Pretty fun game. Unintentional but fun

[RavVid]

Gives closure which is good

[DizzyDesii]

@RavVid yea i used to like you

[RavVid]

Sometimes you find out you missed it. The window was there.

[RavVid]

She said No or he changed his mind or the new girl is a better girl

[DarkWinterNights]

Maybe he didn’t get the reaction from you that he wanted.

[HateyouxD]

Did the girl reject him?

[Asker]

No I never did

[HateyouxD]

Did you ever answer to him? He could be a player

[Asker]

No because how she explain the story it sound like she lied. After that day he kept smiling more.

[HateyouxD]

Well it's hard to know without context. Maybe you should confront him on his behavior

[Asker]

Yeah but he was on the phone with a woman one time and I think he’s engaged

[HateyouxD]

Okay? Leave him be

[Asker]

Yeah I did. He comes to my job smiling. I believe he’s playing mind games.

[HateyouxD]

Gotta leave him be srry

[Asker]

Be sorry for what?

[sheikalana]

He thinks she's a better fit for him.

[DreamLife7]

He doesn't like you lol

[Asker]

Then why he tell others that?

[DreamLife7]

He's dating someone move on and get over it. If he like you he would've dated you like he's dating her. You weren't the total package

[Asker]

He keeps coming to my job that’s why I asked.

[DreamLife7]

He doesn't like you , lol

[kaangok]

People who truly love don't do this

[laly520]

a player

[riverrat3]

Not true feelings