It's not the mistake of a girl if a boy uses her and leaves her for another girl. It's the mistake of the boy and new girl. Agree?

[Anonymous]

[LazerBean]

Disagree. If someone gets with a hoe, they are at least partially to blame.

[Asker]

Why to say a girl is how if a boy leaves her? It could be possible that she trusted him and loved him greatly

[Asker]

*hoe not how

[LazerBean]

I wasn't calling the girl a hoe. Pretty sexist and narrow minded of you to assume that, especially when I was obviously talking about the boy. If a girl trusts a hoe, that is her fault

[Asker]

No one can know until they deal with a one when the damage could already happen

[LazerBean]

Only dumb people deal with hoes like that

[Ms_Facesitter]

Disagree. It's up to you to let yourself get used or not.

[Asker]

This question is asked casually not targetted at anyone. It's not up to you to let yourself get used or not because How can you know you are dealing with a guy who uses a girl?

[Ms_Facesitter]

I know by taking my time in getting to know the guy. I've dodged them all like this. If you don't let your heart lead and can see past the butterflies and crushing, it's easy to find out who is sincere and who isn't.

[Asker]

To know about someone takes time. Damage can already occur if we deal with them till we know

[Ms_Facesitter]

Yes it does :) I keep my guard up throughout the whole thing and they'll show their true colors or call it quits because I'm not moving as fast as they do.

[serious]

Only the boy. Hence I agree.